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Many single boys don’t know girls very well because they have few contacts with girls. When chasing girls, they are always worried about gains and losses and doubt themselves. So what should boys who don’t know how to chase girls do to adjust their mentality? What?

1. Improve yourself

Instead of spending time worrying about gains and losses and thinking about meeting a girl today If she doesn’t reply to you after chatting for a long time, is it because she is not interested in you or because you didn’t say something that could make her angry. It is better to study more and work harder to improve yourself.

Therefore, from today on, stop thinking about games, models, and new AJs. Make full use of your playing time, go through our previous videos and articles, and learn a lot. study.

2. Overthrow and start over again

If the previous pursuit made the girl feel disgusted, or made you feel the same If you feel anxious and unhappy, why not calm down and think about it, is the method wrong?

You might as well try to overturn everything you have done in pursuit before and decide again what you will do next. thing.

For example, I used to always send good morning and good afternoon and good night to a girl, but then she didn’t reply to you very much, so I won’t send it in the future.

But if the weather changes, you can remind her to wear more clothes, bring an umbrella, etc.

For example, you found a delicious restaurant and started inviting her to it, but she didn’t respond to you much. From now on, you just recommend it to her and tell her that you tried it and it was very good.

In fact, girls can also feel your changes.

Compared with before, it is obvious that your methods have changed and you are more considerate of the other person's feelings. Then girls will naturally have a new impression of you.

Perhaps after you have recommended it a few times, the girl will take the initiative to ask you if you want to go together?

When many boys pursue girls, they always have a somewhat humble mentality, and even treat girls as if they are goddesses, unattainable and overly sensitive.

In fact, it is completely unnecessary. If you continue to let your unconfident attitude go unchecked, no matter who you are with, you will lose yourself because you care too much about the other person's opinions.

Therefore, the easiest way is not to think about the other party's evaluation of you, be yourself, and just work hard to achieve your own satisfaction.

4. Be patient

Relationships are not something that can be rushed. Many boys prefer reverseOkay, I just want to set some kind of flag for myself: "I must make a break next month, and I will stop it if it gets better", or "I must work hard quietly and let her see a brand new me next time we meet."

You are just competing with yourself here. Do you know what other girls are doing and thinking?

You do your best when you don’t know anything. Do you know what this is called? ? It’s called self-healing.

You only focus on your own seclusion and practice, and imagine that you will shock everyone the moment you come out of seclusion and make girls look at you with admiration, but you do not create opportunities to get along with each other at all.

Then you can be easily defeated. As long as someone is indifferent to you, you will immediately become disheartened and lose your fighting spirit.

So, you must be patient until you find the reason and solution.

First of all, advise yourself, you might as well be more gentle, wait until your mentality stabilizes, and learn how to contact and understand girls' needs.