When we come into contact with some girls, she may be resistant to you, and even if you are nice to her, she will not accept it very much. Such a girl may be a girl who seriously lacks love in her heart. If you want to pursue her, just You have to put yourself in her shoes, otherwise you may not be able to persevere halfway through.
1. What are the symptoms of a girl who seriously lacks love in her heart?
1. Sensitive and suspicious: She has a strong ability to capture details, but is prone to over-interpret other people’s behavior and is cautious and cautious in social relationships. Worry about gains and losses.
2. Suspicion: holds grudges, loves to dig up petty accounts, is resistant to most relationships, and cares too much about other people’s opinions.
3. Lack of self-confidence: Subconsciously denying yourself, always feeling that you are not perfect enough, doubting the sincerity of others towards you, and believing that you are not worthy of being loved.
4. Extremely insecure: indecisive, afraid of breaking the status quo, highly aggressive, extremely dependent on others, concerned about gains and losses, unable to get love, sometimes taking extreme measures to destroy others, or Own.
5. Extreme personality trends: People who lack love often develop two extremely opposite personalities. One is an avoidant attachment personality, which is distant and fearful of close relationships. The other type is a pleaser personality. As long as he believes in a relationship, he is willing to go through fire and water for it.
6. The native family is full of misfortunes: no one has given sincere love since childhood, so that when you grow up, you don’t know what love is, let alone love others. (Most often occur in families with cheating, domestic violence, and suppressive education).
2. How to pursue a girl who is seriously lacking love in her heart
A girl who is seriously lacking love in her heart is because she has never They have never been loved, so they will habitually feel that "they do not deserve love, and even if someone loves them, it is fake." You obviously want to get love, but when love really comes to you, you will be pushed away by these people.
Similarly, in this mentality of inferiority, dissatisfaction, and insecurity, girls who are seriously lacking love in their hearts will often pass one [safety test] after another to make themselves feel at ease.
For example, she always likes to use various clues to verify "whether her partner really loves her." Even though her partner doesn't do anything extraordinary, she often drives her partner crazy.
For example, you have to check your partner’s mobile phone every day, get angry when your partner makes a small mistake, strictly monitor your partner’s social circle, and have strong hostility towards any of your partner’s friends of the opposite sex.
However, girls who are seriously lacking love in their hearts often work very hard in relationships. Because they are afraid of losing their love, they will desperately control the words and deeds of their possessive partners and friends. They don’t believe that they are loved, so they keep putting pressure on others to give themselves peace of mind.
Therefore, if you want to truly pursue a girl who is seriously lacking love in her heart, then you must understand and tolerate her sensitive fragility, and constantly give her love and attention. Only then will she feel that you are sincere to her. of.
