Many boys will look for reasons when they can't find a partner, but the most common reasons are basically two, one is that they are older, and the other is that they have no money. But brothers, it’s not that simple. If young and wealthy men could find a partner, there wouldn’t be so many leftover men. Although I can’t explain the specific reasons, according to my observation, there are generally the following reasons why older boys can’t find girlfriends:
Why older boys can’t find girlfriends
< h3>1. Short and poorThis is quite heartbreaking, but this is the reality. In fact, there may be more factors for shortness. Of course, this shortness is not what some people say that men under 175 are. If you look at the data on the average height of men in the country, you will know about the second-level disability. The short I am talking about is probably the brothers who are less than 170cm tall (the naked height is less than 168cm tall)~Such a height does require very good other conditions to make up for it. , such as having money. However, if these short brothers happen to have financial problems, well, let’s not talk about it.
2. Extremely fat
In fact, the description of fat has different feelings for different people. , in reality, there are also many fat men who find beautiful girls. After all, most fat men are easier to get along with. Just like some people say that one of his friends must have a fat man. This is not unreasonable. The fat men around me are basically popular. All good. But what I’m talking about here is the kind of people who are very fat and have no size when buying clothes. This will probably affect your health. If older boys are fat and want to get out of singles, it will be even more difficult. Even if they have money, it seems difficult to make up for this.
3. The conditions in all aspects are not outstanding
Some older boys are single because they disappear from the crowd. How to put it, other people are like buckets, but they have long boards and short boards. Although the length of the boards of these people is very average, it is still a vat. Although it does not necessarily hold less water than the bucket, it does lack a section in height. . These brothers have average looks, average bodies, average personalities, average family backgrounds, average careers, and are average everywhere. As a result, they will naturally be labeled as ordinary, boring, etc. In this world full of sensory stimulation and pursuit of the extraordinary In this world, such people are naturally easily ignored.
4. Those who are too narcissistic but cannot meet the actual conditions
Such older boys always The mysterious self-confidence makes people wonder if the buddy has unintentionally hypnotized himself. You must know that the impact of this huge contrast between self-perception and other people's perceptions can sometimes be disastrous. For example, a brother who calls himself Mai Ba shows off his singing voice in front of a group of girls, but the actual tune is not right; another example is a brother who claims to be an ancient handsome man with long beautiful hair, but would easily fall down when walking without blowing his hair; Another example is a brother who is less than 1.75 meters tall and thinks he is gay every day.The material is simply in the golden ratio, and he often boasts about it. . Think about it carefully and see if there is a picture.
5. Too shy and never take the initiative
There are many older boys of this type who have wealthy families and successful careers, but they just can’t find a clue when it comes to the relationship between men and women. They tend to communicate well with people of the same sex, but as soon as they come into contact with women, they seem to know nothing. They feel a bit phobic, as if women are a kind of monster, let alone let them take the initiative, they are probably right. Women are shunned, and asking them to leave their singles would cost their lives~
Of course, there are also some particularly extreme older boys, such as those whose looks are really irresponsible. Or they have serious psychological defects, which I won’t talk about. In short, for older boys, I think the issue of not being able to find a partner has little to do with age.
