We know that girls may like to be tall, rich and handsome, but in addition, some girls also pay great attention to feelings. Even if you are rich and handsome, girls just say they don’t have feelings for you, which confuses many boys. Could it be that even with such excellent conditions, I can’t make girls feel feelings for me? What exactly do girls want to feel like? What does it mean when a girl says she doesn't feel anything?
1. Those girls who pay attention to feelings
Compared with girls who worship money and girls who control their appearance, girls who pay attention to feelings tend to care less about money (of course not not at all), because They are not short of money to begin with, or they are mentally strong enough not to be moved by money. Therefore, she has the confidence to pursue the feeling of love she wants.
If a boy is nice to her but she just doesn’t feel it, then she won’t like him no matter what he does. Even if she reluctantly gets together with a boy she has no feelings for, she will be picky and disgusted in various ways later on, and they will often break up in the end.
2. What do girls say they feel?
Such girls must find someone who has feelings when they fall in love. Talk, as for how this feeling comes, most of the time, they can’t explain it. But one thing will not change: only better boys can make them feel. It can be academic qualifications, conversational skills, or work performance. This kind of excellence is based on themselves, that is to say, this boy is better than her and better than themselves.
On the premise of excellence, it is easy to inspire girls to feel admiration and develop feelings for this boy. At this time, it would be easy for a boy to pursue her successfully, and the two of them would be together naturally. But the relationship is just the beginning, not the end. After being with a boy who has feelings, this kind of girl will immediately have a second emotional problem, which is that she always feels that the emotional concentration is not enough.
3. Can girls be together if they have feelings?
Because girls who pay attention to feelings like to fantasize very much. Many of the contents of their fantasies are very futuristic; at the same time, they pay great attention to details and observe every move, smile, and word of their boyfriend in daily life. Paying attention to details and liking fantasy, combined with these two points, they will come up with a conclusion every day: "Does my boyfriend not love me?"
"I asked him to take me to the high-speed rail station today, but he pushed me away because of something. Is he impatient with me?";
"My boyfriend had sex today and didn't want to wear a condom. , he doesn’t respect me at all”;
“My boyfriend didn’t call me to wake me up this morning. Does he have any thoughts about me?”;
“In the afternoon, he sent a text message "You didn't send it to me, did I do something wrong?";
"Today we had a phone call on WeChat, but heI hung up, and he actually hung up on me.";
"I agreed to let him come to me today, but he said he had something to do, so he actually asked me to go find him.";
"He used to personally deliver breakfast to me every day, but today he actually ordered takeout. He said he didn't want to get up."
Wait, there are all kinds of things, their emotions. There are almost no major problems, they are all small things like this. From these small things, you can deduce that your boyfriend doesn’t love you, and then you can find someone to verify it.
In fact, to put it bluntly, a girl’s feelings will change. Maybe she feels very good about you one moment, but the next moment some of your actions make her dissatisfied and she has no feelings for you anymore. , so this feeling is actually very illusory. Don't give up rashly just because a girl says you don't feel anything. She might have feelings for you in the next second.
