Although it is said that if you like a girl, you should boldly pursue it, but many boys are too impatient when chasing girls. The result is that the girls are either scared away or disgusted by the girls. So is there any remedy for this situation?
1. Can you remedy being too eager to chase a girl and being disgusted?
Being too eager to chase a girl is disgusting. It can be remedied.
A girl’s attitude towards feelings is a very sensitive matter; so when you pursue a girl, you are too impatient and cause her resentment; at this time, your method is wrong; but as long as you have the intention, the two of you can be together. Between individuals, you can still go back to the past; as long as you change your methods, you can still have the sincerity of a girl.
Only when a girl has thoughts and feelings for you can two people get together; so at this time, it is not suitable to use this method to pursue a girl. heart; you must change your behavior and slowly gain the girl's heart first, then you can truly have the girl's love.
2. Remedies for being too impatient to chase girls
1. Change the way you chat
When you are chatting with a girl, you will find that you can’t wait to confess your feelings to the girl, and the girl will be caught off guard and don’t know what to do, which will lead to a cold scene. Then if you are too impatient, girls will guess what you are thinking. Therefore, you must change your chatting method and make your chatting method attract girls. In this way, girls will have a good impression of you during chatting, which is also very good.
So how can you enrich your chatting style? For example, use games to chat, or use sharing to chat, etc. Remember not to always use a question-and-answer format. This format is most likely to make girls dislike you.
2. Move girls with practical actions
When girls have guessed what you are thinking, you must not panic. The most important thing to remember at this time is to panic, because when you panic , you are afraid of doing something wrong. Therefore, you can use your actual actions to impress girls, do more things for girls in your life, and care more about girls. No matter it is big or small, you must think about problems from a girl's perspective. However, you must also have your own opinion, so that you can set off your own ideas well.
Caring for girls can also reflect your sincerity. But you can't care about girls all the time, as this will cause girls to ignore you. There must be a moderation in what you do, and if you do these things at the right time, you will have different effects.
3. Create opportunities for dating
When a girl gets along with you, your initiative allows the girl to guess your thoughts. At this time, the girl does not want to date you.You are together. So what should you do? At this time, you must know that your behavior will make girls not want to chat with you or go out to eat with you.
You have to try to create some dating opportunities, so that in a romantic atmosphere, girls will slowly feel that being with you is also very happy. Because just chatting without going out to meet will not be very effective. Never go directly to ask a girl out for dinner, because the girl will definitely not agree. When a girl says she is boring, you will definitely be willing to date her again.
3. What to do if you are disgusted when chasing a girl
1. Grasp the degree
For those who are very enthusiastic about a girl from the beginning but the girl expresses discomfort, pursuing the girl too eagerly and then keeping her cold for a few days is indeed a good remedy. But you have to have a certain degree of control, otherwise girls will leave you if you are too cold or too hot. For example, if a girl likes you or you feel that she gives you hope (not the sentimental kind), it is best to stay hot; if you If you stay cold to a girl for too long, the girl will think that you must not be sincere to her, otherwise why would you not persist after being passionate for a few days? It's like when you're full and a table of delicious food is placed in front of you, you won't be able to eat it no matter how delicious it is. But when you've been hungry for a few days and there's a lot of food in front of you, of course you'll go back. Taking it too seriously.
2. Let her get used to your existence
In fact, it is best for a girl to keep being hot, let her get used to your days, take care of her in every possible way, and pursue her for a long time. In order to establish a relationship with her, if she is rejected, you will not be erased from her mind. To chase a girl too eagerly and then give her a cold shoulder for a few days is often called playing hard to get. In fact, people have this characteristic. The better you treat her, the less you know how to cherish her. Instead, you neglect her, and she will come to you again. Emotional problems have been difficult since ancient times. Solve it, if there are so many stories about two people who are in love, in fact, you will know whether they can become a couple at the first sight, and now you are reluctant to let go.
3. Become a better person
A beautiful girl will have thousands of men trying to chat with her every year. If you really want to pursue her, first of all To make her interested in you, you must be excellent. You must be better than other competitors, both internally and externally. You must dress and behave on the outside and have a good image. You must be humorous and connotative on the inside, and have personal charm. Quality, etc. Of course, these may be difficult for a novice, so I suggest you try and learn more, such as setting up a daily schedule to strike up conversations, chat, read fashion magazines, love-related books, or take some emotional courses. It is important It’s better to take action and pursue it if you like it!
