I believe that all single boys will never lack brothers, only girlfriends. But when chasing the girl he liked, he discovered that she regarded him as a brother. What should we do in this situation? How to promote the relationship from brothers to lovers?
1. Why are girls regarded as Brother
First of all, what we need to understand is:
When a girl calls you "brother", does she treat you as an "oppa" who can get along with you, or is she just a brother. This depends on the various signals girls send to you, such as:
Do girls have no regard for their female image in front of you? But they are very reserved towards other members of the opposite sex.
Perhaps you will say: "Doesn't this mean that we are more familiar with each other, and she is willing to show her truest self in front of me because she likes me?"
How wrong! Imagine Consider a scene like this:
You are "showing your true self" in front of ordinary friends, and then the person you like comes over to you, will you still be like that just now?
< p> Therefore, in the early stages of love, most people are reserved and reserved. Of course, this alone doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested in you.It may also be that the girl’s personality is more slow to warm up, because familiarity and openness make you feel like a "brother". Then, we have to think about how she responded every time she hesitated and repeatedly proposed that she wanted to get closer to you. If she immediately makes a joke and puts it off, or even says she wants to be friends with you. Then we are really forced to be brothers!
2. How to turn brothers into lovers
Being treated like a girl by the girl you like Brother, in fact, he is a typical "lovers are not satisfied with AUO". In this kind of relationship, the time is actually not ripe, but many boys are too eager to break through this relationship and express their love in a hurry. Let the relationship between the two people return to before liberation overnight.
After all, the sentence "I treat you as a brother, but you want to sleep with me" is not groundless.
Therefore, I suggest that you don’t be anxious and take the opportunity of brothers to make the transition slowly. You can create more ambiguous situations, ask her out as a friend, and show off your boyfriend power inadvertently.
For example, when we go out together, we will naturally pull her to the inside of the road when crossing the road, allowing ourselves to face the dangerous traffic.
The purpose of this is to give the girl you like the illusion that she is in love with you for a moment.
This illusion will constantly remind her: you can be more than just friends.
The change of identity is a long process. Don’t panic during this period. Just give the girl an emotional sense of security and don’t make her uncomfortable. When the girl feels for you,It's not too late to pierce the thin window paper between you.
It is said that lovers are the best friends. At that time, you had endless topics to talk about every day. Even when we go out, we are inseparable. You call us brothers and toast to friendship.
But in fact, only you know that you like her and don’t want to be just friends with her. You also know very well that a best friend cannot be a lover.
I know the feeling of not being able to be friends even after confessing your love. I have also had the experience of having to choose between friendship and love.
It really takes courage to take this step...
