If you want to catch up with a girl, it doesn’t mean that every behavior of yours should add points, but at least you should not lose points. So what are the behaviors that boys do that most make girls feel bad?
1. "Straight Man" style chat
Whether it's checking your household registration at the beginning, or reasoning with your girlfriend when she quarrels, or a girl complaining to you Sometimes you reason with her...
Sometimes boys are very innocent. This is not a matter of emotional intelligence. Sometimes they have no malicious intent, but they just think it is normal to do so.
Because boys’ thinking is rational, everything is a solution to a problem in their eyes, so they are very purposeful when doing things.
Therefore, when dating girls Sometimes, boys should learn to change their thinking:
Don’t always focus on how to solve this problem, but think about how the other person feels when I do this.
2. Longing for love but seeming too lazy to get along
Before being single, brothers liked to chat at gatherings Which girl have I been flirting with recently, who have I fallen in love with recently, are there any opportunities to ask her out, etc. However, after being single or even getting married, this group of people started to complain about the one in their family who is really unreasonable, and they I wish I could go and have fun with my brothers all night long.
This has even formed a meme: if it is not a physiological need, boys seem to prefer playing with boys.
This is what makes many girls crazy: It was you who chased me, and it was you who confessed to me, and those disgusting words were all said by you yourself, but now that we are together, you are like this again Attitude, go and live with your gang of friends, I won't serve you anymore.
You see, men are actually quite troublesome. They keep saying that they want to get out of singles, and they get advantage over and over again by being nice and nice to women. It’s really troublesome.
Because in long-term relationships, women are much more insecure than men, so over time, most girls will become more and more clinging to their boyfriends. However, genes determine that men are born with uninhibited love. The Lord of freedom, so after a long-term relationship, they showed a tendency to break away.
3. Like to make excuses
No one likes timid people because they are very insecure. . A cowardly person always avoids everything. If you follow such a person, you will suffer a lifetime of arrogance. Who doesn't want to live longer? What I'm most afraid of is that you have a lot of excuses and keep making excuses. People who tell lies to themselves and live in illusions. Girls like strong, masculine people, who cares about you, a weak and self-deceiving person.
4. Love to be clever
Some people are born to be incapable of getting on the stage and always like to do little things behind the scenes, always thinking that their ideas are superior to others. The method is extremely superb. In fact, in the eyes of outsiders, you are just a clown, but you just don't realize it. If you like someone, like it openly, approach it for the right reasons, and express your love in the appropriate way. It doesn't matter if it doesn't succeed. . Why should you be timid and express yourself in all kinds of strange and twisted ways to attract the attention of the goddess? Just think about it with your toes and you will know that it is impossible to succeed.
