A girl’s mood is as unpredictable as the weather. It is easy to be happy because of trivial things, and it is even easier to be sad because of trivial things. So when a girl is in a bad mood, how should you comfort and make her happy?
First of all, you need to understand that comfort is not the point, because no matter how you comfort, it will not solve the problem. And if you don't say it well, it will appear that you are particularly hypocritical. For example, if a girl loses her mobile phone, Apple 8X, can you buy her one? You can't buy it, and you are reluctant to buy it. Then does your comfort have any practical significance? No!
Therefore, in the relationship between the sexes, what can you not solve? Question, don’t think that you can make the other party not feel uncomfortable or sad with just a few words, but the correct way is?
The correct way is to make the woman happy!
A girl is sick. If you want to chat with her, she is not in a good mood and is not very willing to chat. At this time, you can say: Stop playing with your mobile phone when you are sick. There is radiation [goodbye]
One day you send her a message: Are you feeling better?
No matter what she says, you can always say: Now that the phone is on, it means she is feeling better, and I will take you to get some nutrition.
This method is suitable for girls who have a relatively independent personality. If a girl is a talkative and clingy girl, just spend more time with her and talk to her, or even make an appointment.
Because you have to know that sweet words between the sexes are not as good as hugging each other when they meet. As women say, companionship is the most true confession!
Depending on the relationship between two people, the way of caring is also different!
Here, a very important thing is emphasized, which is relationship. If you have never met a girl before, then any concern you have will seem insignificant. For example, if you are sick and hospitalized, and the security guard in your community comes to see you and buys a lot of things, you will feel that he must have other motives or even ulterior motives.
In the same way, if you care too much about a friend you don’t know very well, you will definitely make the other person uncomfortable. Many people watch some love movies and are easily confused by the plots in them. They think that when a woman is in a bad mood or sick, she is at her weakest, and caring for her can strengthen your relationship. Although it makes sense, if a woman is fetching fluids alone in the hospital, she really wants a man to accompany her. But if she doesn't like you, she won't call you, and even if you take the initiative to go, she won't agree. Because your relationship has not reached any stage, she will not like you just because you asked to accompany her. Because the essence of love is not based on your concern for her.
So, for friends with whom you have a casual relationship, you need something “special”Chat skills!
Just like the chat below, this girl was fined 800 yuan by the company because of her work, so the boy said a very stupid thing, but the girl was not angry, nor It shows that this girl is still somewhat interested in him. But if a girl has a bad impression of you and you often say stupid things, then she may have ignored you long ago.
Therefore, if you want to make up for it, you can say a polite word, such as: Seeing how pitiful you are, why don't I treat you? She feasted, turning grief into appetite.
Inviting her to a big dinner is actually a tentative conversation. If the other party agrees, then you can invite her. If the other party refuses, she can also feel your sincerity. It can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
After she replies, you can also say some sweet words or big words to coax her.
If just some sweet words don’t work, you can also use some substantive methods to comfort her. We call it: small favors.
For example: Send a 9.9 red envelope and write: "Buy a pack of Oreos to replenish energy." Then send a separate message, "Remember to twist it," and add an emoticon.
In this way, you can not only let the other party feel your sincerity, but also make the other party laugh, which has the ultimate comfort effect.
Sometimes, we want to comfort a girl who is in a bad mood, or we want to comfort her when we quarrel with our girlfriend. In fact, all we need to do is to make her laugh.
