In order to catch up with the girl they like, many people spend a lot of money and give many gifts, hoping to impress the girl in this way. However, this kind of pursuit without asking for anything in return makes you tired and passive in the end, and you even become the other party's licking dog and spare tire. So how can you catch the girl you like?
1. Change the way you give
< p> There are many boys who think that the girl they like is too beautiful, but they have no money or appearance, so when they first start chasing her, they place themselves lower than the girl, and then they start to lose their temper when chasing her. Paying in return, trying to gain the girl's favor by giving and pleasing.But too much effort and low profile actually promote girls invisibly. You know, there is nothing wrong with giving to pursue a girl, but giving without expecting anything in return is a big problem. To get rid of feelings is mutual and requires a lot of balance. Only when you are on an equal footing with a girl will she look at you with normal eyes. And if you give without expecting anything in return, you are degrading yourself.
When your status is reduced to the lowest level, and a girl is already at the highest level, then you can only look up to the other person, but the other person is looking down on you. At this time, your identities have changed. Unknowingly, the girl has become a goddess, but you have to understand that since she has become a god, how can she be willing to fall in love with a mortal like you? She can only be reduced to kneeling. Licking her dick, do you think girls will look up to him if he is a dick?
Therefore, if you want to catch the girl you like, you need to change the way you give and learn to guide girls to give.
2. Guiding girls to pay
Guiding girls to pay for us is a step-by-step process. Take the matter of a girl asking you for help. Many people will think that they should do it by saying that it is a small favor and a little effort. In this way, she will not remember your efforts, because she has not given anything, and people will always treat what they get easily. Don't pay attention to things.
If we change the method and say, "I'll do you a favor, you can treat me to a big dinner anyway." Use a similar equivalent to show your value, but don't go too far and ask for The value of the thing is much higher than the value you paid, so as not to backfire.
In this way, you can not only deepen the impression in the girl's mind, but also have a dinner with the girl you like. Why not?
The same is true for chatting with girls. If a girl asks you for some personal information, just tell her directly that such an interaction is meaningless. If you add some conditions when exchanging personal information, such as rewarding the girl with a little red flower, you must exchange information and let her know first. The way a girl does some little things can guide a girl to invest emotionally when she finds out she's in youI am spending more and more emotions, and even when I always think of you, it is not far away from you being together.
For example, after treating a girl to dinner, it is normal for you to pay the bill. But after paying the bill, you have to let the girl also treat you, "You are so full! Why don't you treat me to a cup of coffee to digest?"
Remember, it is different from giving gifts during the New Year and holidays. It doesn't mean that she should spend as much as you spend on you, but let her know that you will not pay for her unconditionally.
So there is the next stage: guiding her to spend time and energy on you. The more you invest, the less you want to give up. This is human nature.
So if you want to have a good emotional relationship, you must let the other person invest more in you. Why are some scumbag men and scumbag women outraged by their actions, but their partners still cry to death and refuse to give up? It’s because they have invested so much in scumbag men and scumbag women that they simply can’t let go.
3. Maintaining a balance with girls
If you want to maintain a balance with girls, you must first do it That is, throw away your previous thinking and change your way of thinking.
Many brothers think like this: they think that material is the core condition for maintaining a relationship. When they get along, they will choose to use material to maintain the relationship. For example, eating and dating are just the most important things. Gui is the most popular person, thinking that this can show his attention and liking for girls, but in the eyes of girls, this will only become a means to pursue her, and maybe it will only become a long-term meal ticket.
Similarly, if you blindly show concern for a girl, she will think that you are a person without principles and attitude, and it is easy for girls to look down on you.
In addition, the most deadly thing is the straight man’s thought: I am a man, and it is natural to spend money on women! I am a warm man, will I still be a warm man if I don’t pamper you? In the end, girls will tell you that you are a warm man. Nice guy, but I don't like you.
When your thinking changes, you will know that some things can be solved without using money, or even solved better.
