It’s hard to understand a girl’s mind. For example, when chatting with girls on WeChat, we often encounter situations where girls don’t reply to WeChat. In this case, the girl is hinting at you. Give up?
1. Does a girl imply giving up by not replying to WeChat?
You know, if If a girl is interested in you, it is almost non-existent that she will not reply to WeChat. Even if she is too busy to reply, she will explain the reason to you as soon as she is done.
Therefore, there is no doubt that if a girl does not reply to WeChat, she is actually conveying that chatting with you is boring, but it is not actually suggesting that you give up, she just doesn’t want to chat with you.
Therefore, if you don’t change your chatting style and still use this boring chatting method to increase your presence, then girls’ enthusiastic feedback to you will only get lower and lower. It is even said that when a girl hates you to the extreme and does not want to have too much verbal contact with you, she will completely stop replying and block you. What should a girl do if she replies to WeChat?
2. What should a girl do if she doesn’t reply to WeChat
1 , Choose a topic
There is a saying that choice is greater than effort. When chatting with girls, the choice of topics is the same. If you talk to girls about football, basketball, or eating chicken, girls may not be interested in these topics.
But if you change the angle and talk to them about perfume, clothing, food and drink, you may be able to immediately mobilize the other person's desire to express and start a lively chat with you.
For example:
Male: What brand of perfume do you often use?
Female: Haha, have you done any research on this?
Male: I want to remember it, and I will think of you when I smell it in the future
Everyone can become lively and talkative in the fields that they are good at and like.
Of course, boys may seem effeminate when talking about these things, but if you pay attention, you will find that you and girls have many common topics, such as music, movies, travel, current affairs, etc.
If you do this, you will find that there will not be so many obstacles in communicating with the other party, and the other party will not reply to you with "um", "ah" and "oh". On the contrary, the other person will be more than willing to express her inner feelings and thoughts to you.
2. Stay confident
Many times, when we meet the girl we like, we always hug Get along with the other person with a fear of losing and desperately trying to be nice to her.
Every time you chat with a girl, you will base herI thought about every word carefully before replying, for fear of saying the wrong thing.
Do you think that people you really like should be carefully cared for like treasures.
However, in fact, this kind of overly cautious attitude will make you appear extremely unconfident, and will invisibly make girls look down on you.
Just like when we want to do something, the more you care about the results and get into trouble, the easier it will be for failure to happen.
On the contrary, the positivity shown by a confident man makes it easier for a girl to believe in his future and thus develop a sense of dependence on him.
Female: I don’t think you are anxious at all.
Male: If anxiety is useful, then I don’t have to work so hard.
3. Be concise and concise
"Are you there?" "Have you eaten today?" Where to go?"... I believe that anyone who faces a household check-style chat will be speechless.
The most important thing in chatting is the mood. Constantly asking questions will only push the atmosphere to an awkward level.
If you can’t get to the point even after asking for a long time, it will leave a very nagging impression on the girl. At the same time, doing so can easily make the other person lose their desire to express themselves, or even not want to talk to you.
In fact, by stating your views on a certain topic appropriately and occasionally making jokes, you can make the chat full of depth and interest, thereby stimulating the girl's interest.
For example: Today I met a restaurant with great food. It would be even more perfect if you were there too.
