When going on a blind date, when you meet a girl who is your type, you will often feel excited and a little nervous. What should you do if you want to increase the favorability in her mind?
Now I will tell you what to pay attention to when dating a boy for the first time, and help you improve her favorability towards you through some small details.
1. Know yourself and the enemy
The so-called know yourself and the enemy means to understand the other person's situation as much as possible, such as her Work, family, marital experiences, etc. Why do you do this? Because you can have a certain degree of understanding of her habits and personality based on her basic information, which will allow you to handle your subsequent conversations with ease, and because blind dates are usually introduced through acquaintances, so This step is also relatively simple.
2. No need to dress up
For the first blind date, you only need to dress as usual and be casual. After all, you are going on a blind date, so it is very likely that You will spend your whole life with this girl, so just let her know who you are in reality. Never dress yourself up as a "successful person" or a "single aristocrat", even if you really are. Blindly showing off wealth and success will make girls feel a little disgusted, so money should be spent appropriately, as everyone knows.
3. Common topics
When meeting on a blind date for the first time, neither party can be said to be familiar with each other. Boys always like to talk about "when I was a child, when I was in elementary school, when I was in junior high school...", but girls may not be interested. Not to mention your 5-year plan or 10-year plan. When you are on a blind date, your plan is only yours. Nowadays, girls are very realistic, so stop it!
Try to find chat topics for both parties. You can talk more about the hobbies and topics that the other party is interested in. If you really can't find a common topic, you can repeat the other party's point of view appropriately to show that you and the other party are in the same position. In this way, conflicts of opinions will be minimized, at least for the first meeting. You can talk more about hobbies and topics that the other person is interested in. If you don’t understand, just listen more.
4. Be honest with each other
If the other party asks you a question you don’t want to answer during the blind date chat, you can choose to avoid the topic and avoid answering, but do not cheat other side. If you deceive for a moment, you may be hiding something from the other person. However, if you want to get along with her for a long time, your deception now will become a trigger for you later. And after all, marriage is a lifelong matter, so you must be honest with each other during a blind date. It doesn't matter much to others. This is the most basic principle.
5. Pay attention to details
Girls care about details.For example, when eating in a restaurant, help her pull out a chair. When ordering, let her order or ask her more about her taste; just keep delivering those little things. You should give her something that makes her feel a little expensive, but not too expensive, which will increase the girl's financial burden. You need to let her understand that you are using your heart, not just using money. But you should never give something very cheap, unless you are as handsome as a descendant of the sun, and a look in your face is a good gift.
When you do these things to note when meeting a boy on a blind date for the first time, then your image in the minds of girls will definitely be greatly improved. Although the success rate of your first blind date will not be too high, you should not just have a casual attitude. After the blind date, if you feel the need to develop, continue to keep in touch and communicate with her. At the same time, remember that there is not only love in your life, but also friends, work and family. You can't be too enthusiastic about her, but you can't forget her existence either. During the holidays, you can also give her some small gifts to express your feelings for her.