What kind of man is most attractive to women? Three words - "valuable". The logic behind the relationship between men and women is value attraction. If you have one of the following four values ??that surpasses others, you will be able to stand out in the marriage and love market. And the more you have, the more women will be unable to live without you, especially items 2 and 4, which most women cannot resist. .
1. Having growth value
Girls will not fall in love with you just because you don’t have a Ferrari, nor will they fall in love with you just because you don’t have a Ferrari. She will fall in love with you because of you and will leave you without a Ferrari. But she will definitely dislike you from the bottom of her heart because you don’t even have the dream of buying a car. Therefore, sometimes you have to show off your "big cake" and let girls see your ambition. Let her feel that you are a growing man, and she will see hope in you that she can live a good life with you.
Even if you are a kid from a rich family, if you don’t study or do anything all day long, most girls stay with such men just for that piece of paper. Because girls lack a sense of security, they value long-term stability more than immediate benefits.
2. Provide emotional value
This is very important, it directly determines whether a girl will fall in love with you. Ending. Many iron friends will ask, what is emotional value? To put it simply, it is divided into three aspects: understand her, tease her, and tease her. To understand her is to be able to see through the emotions behind her every word and know what she needs. The so-called teasing her is to have your own sense of humor so that the girl is always happy when she is with you. The so-called flirting with her means that you can influence her mood and make her mood fluctuate because of you.
Many scumbag men do these three things well and coax girls around. The reason why straight men are not popular is because they cannot do these three things, and girls say they are ignorant and stupid. Everyone likes to be with people who make them feel comfortable, that's why emotional value is important.
3. Pay attention to external value
Don’t underestimate your own image management, men also need external value. Because external value is the most direct and obvious value, it can distance you from others at a glance in the crowd. I know some die-hards want to say "I'm not good-looking and girls won't like me".
Hey, don't be sad. When girls like handsome guys, they don’t just look at their faces as you might imagine, but they look at whether a man’s overall image is majestic. Even if you seem a bit mean, as long as you make her feel clean, comfortable, and have her own taste, she will look at you differently and think that you have good vision and aesthetics.
The most important thing is that when your external image improves, you will become more confident and will not have stage fright when facing beautiful girls. The charm you exude at this time can easily attract girls. In the face of the overall temperament of a person, appearance is actually not that important.
4. Create scarcity value
Here comes the key point. This is definitely an invisible and intangible trick. What does scarcity value mean? It’s the value that you have but the girl you like doesn’t. Each of us has our own inner desires. If we can't get our needs met, we expect to find them elsewhere. This is a compensatory mentality.
Why do good girls fall in love with bad boys? This is because it is their own need to become bad. They wish they could be less obedient, but they dare not. With bad boys, they can gain a sense of rebellion and freedom. Will keep them on top.
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In the same way, some girls like "uncle" and some boys like older sisters. This is often because they lacked father's or mother's love in childhood. So when they grow up, they hope to find that missing fatherly love in another person. Thinking about it from another angle, if you want to capture a girl's heart, you must first find the most lacking needs in her heart.
If she is not experienced in the world, take her to see the prosperity of the world; if she has experienced many vicissitudes of life, take her to ride the merry-go-round. In short, whatever she lacks, you make up for it. Just do it and create your scarcity value. You will become an irreplaceable presence in her heart, and she will be completely inseparable from you.
Write it at the end
The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give the other person a high-value lover. Because worldly emotions inevitably have a practical side. It's not that if you work hard to be nice to someone, that person will work equally hard to love you, but because you are valuable, your efforts will be valued by him.
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