I like a girl, but I feel that the girl doesn’t like me and doesn’t like me. What should I do?
You must know that every girl is an independent individual with great differences. Some girls Lively and cute, some girls are sexy and hot, and some girls are gentle and kind. For different types of girls, we have to pay attention to prescribing the right medicine to suit their needs.
So regarding the question of how to make the girl you like like you, here are some directional suggestions for chatting. I hope everyone can draw inferences!
Chatting with girls is all about emotions. It's resonance. When people first get to know each other, it is like a blank piece of paper. Some people may have A4 paper, and some people may have copper paper. What you can draw on this piece of paper is up to you!
So, how do we control the rhythm of chatting with girls to improve the goodwill between each other?
A simple summary, divided into three steps!
The first step, control the frequency
If you like someone every day Chatting with her will, firstly, expose your sense of need.
This is easy to understand. It’s like those insurance salesmen who call you every day. When you receive the call, you will subconsciously refuse and hang up!
The second is that it is easy for you to talk about the topic. exhausted.
After all, if you want to chat with a girl without getting cold feet, you must have a lot of topics to talk about. Just imagine, if you chat with her and there are no good topics, then the meaning of the chat itself will be lost. In the long run, It turned into an awkward chat.
Maybe when you first start chatting, you won’t be distracted by such questions because you are well prepared, but as the chat deepens and time goes by, you may soon run out of topics. Then it fell into an awkward and awkward situation.
Therefore, do not use too much force in the early stages of chatting with girls, control the appropriate frequency of chatting, and lead girls into your chat rhythm.
The second step is to create new topics
Girls hate two kinds of boys: one is gushing and not talking There are boys who are extremely self-aggrandizing, interrupt other people's conversations, and only talk about themselves from beginning to end; the other type is boys who just use old topics, have no freshness, and start the "awkward chat" mode without knowing it.
When chatting with a girl you like, after entering the favorable stage, it is inevitable that the topic will be exhausted, so we must create new topics.
To explore new topics, you can start from girls’ interests and hobbies:
For example: Girls like fitness.
You can download a Keep first and learn about some security issues that need attention in advance. You can take the initiative to bring up these topics when chatting, and girls will feel your concern;
Or if you don’t live very far away, you can go directly to her gym!
Go to the gym. Besides exercising, you can also accumulate experience and create more communication opportunities.
Or, start from work; if a girl is very ambitious, you can praise her as a "strong woman" or "independent woman" appropriately, but you must also maintain your own work attitude and show that you are also a capable person. Enterprising person. If the other person is not a career-oriented woman, then your topic should be to pay more attention to whether her work content is tiring, whether the company atmosphere is good, and how she gets along with her colleagues, etc.
The third step, invitation preparation
When we have completed the above two steps, we can The invitation is laid.
The WeChat Moments is a place that can be used: starting from the Moments, and guiding girls to comment through their own Moments.
For example, you can usually post photos of delicious food, which can be cooked by yourself or from a local restaurant, and add the words "Who wants to try XXX cooked by me", "XX The store looks very nice, I really want to find someone to go with me” and so on.
Once a girl leaves a comment, you reply, and after two or three rounds, the chat can be smoothly transferred to WeChat private messages. Through the step-by-step chat advancement, you can determine your date time and date place, and form a Dating foreshadowing.
Use the other party’s Moments to make guiding comments:
For example, a common example is: a girl posts to Moments: Recently, I have been kneeling for six consecutive times while eating chicken. Is there any great person who can guide me? Shall I fly?
You can reply: Come out on the weekend and find a coffee shop with good internet to take you off.
Or:
Girl: The hot pot in this store is delicious, I must try it next time.
You can reply: I know there is a hot pot restaurant that is better, but it is in a remote location. I can take you there.
Finally, to summarize! Whether you control the frequency or create new topics, you are paving the way for invitations.
So we remind ourselves from time to time that invitations are the final goal of chatting! See if the chat deviates from the main line!
