Love experts who really understand girls know that it often happens that they are blocked after chasing girls. What should you do if you are blocked for chasing a girl? Then you have to know the reason. There are only two reasons for being blocked: bad emotions and external reasons. Next, the editor will briefly explain the differences and operations between the two, I hope it will be helpful to you.
1. Reasons for being blocked for chasing girls
1. Being blocked for having bad emotions
According to the cases I have come across in the past, people who were blocked due to "bad emotions" 95% of the guys are blocked. They usually do the following:
Crazy sending messages to girls, and the girl is disgusted and blocked.
The boy kept showing his love and emphasizing his dedication, but the girl blocked him speechlessly.
The girl was provoked and blocked by saying the wrong thing.
Stalking and stalking, the girl is afraid of being blocked.
After the girl declined, the boy increased his efforts, but the girl resisted and blocked him.
The first impression I gave the girl was very bad, and she blocked her immediately.
Begging the girl not to leave him, the girl was annoyed and blocked him.
If you express content that is not in line with the current relationship too early, the girl will feel disgusted and blocked.
You will see that it is all problems with boys' frames, giving girls a feeling that I am bad, I am casual, and I am crazy. , the low-value impression that my love is worthless.
It doesn’t matter if a boy is of low value, but don’t keep asking for a response. If the product is not up to standard, you won’t buy it. So asking others to accept you if your love is not perfect will not work. The more insistent you are, the more the girl will feel disgusted, reaching a critical point where she can no longer stand it. She will change from a "gentle little sweet" to a "white-eyed wolf". She just wants to get rid of you and stay away from you, just to be quiet for a while.
The best way to avoid being blocked due to "bad emotions" is:
You feel that the atmosphere is not right, and the other party becomes cold, does not reply, and even reminds you not to chat with you frequently anymore time. You should think about whether the recent information is not displayed properly? Are you giving too much and trying to please the girl too much? You should give yourself some time and slow down.
2. Blacklisting due to external reasons
This type of blacklisting is really not that complicated. Either you are poaching, or you are on the way to poaching. It was tacitly understood and no need to say anything.
2. What to do if you are blacklisted after chasing a girl?
How to break the situation after being blacklisted? They will choose to block someone if they have a bad impression of you and have a bad experience with you. Then wouldn’t it be good if we changed our impression and experience?
The first step is to stop the loss first and not let the conflict worsen.
If someone tells you not to look for her, then take it easy first.
People let youDon’t give gifts, then don’t give them yet.
If people tell you not to follow them, then stop following them.
Remember, the core of breaking the situation is that the other party truly feels your changes, not your blind persistence.
The second step is to improve your own value and then show it.
It’s a long road to get the other person to have confidence in you again, and it doesn’t mean you can just change it. Can't you get better now that the girl is gone? You do it for yourself, understand? As for the direction of improvement, it is divided into soft and hard values. Both need to be improved, and it depends on the development of the situation.
Hard value refers to strength: job promotion, buying a house and car, starting a business successfully.
Soft value refers to hobbies and thinking: you become humorous, you can play the piano, you become Understand girls
No one will resist being in the company of good people. You are blacklisted because you give the other person the impression of a loser, so you have to improve your charm by a few levels.
The third step is to wait patiently for opportunities.
The stronger the contrast between before and after, the more emotional stimulation will be given. Just do what you should do normally and keep improving. If you are upset, you will be unblocked within 1 month, and if you are disgusted, you will be unblocked within 1 year.
Of course, this is only the case for some people. If you have no emotional foundation and feel disgusting about you, it is not impossible that you will never have a chance in this life. When the other party unblocks you, and you apply as a friend again, and seeing you change, won’t the girl know that you have changed? She will definitely be curious about what you have been through. At this time, isn't it time for you to show off? At this point, the question becomes: How do I maintain attraction?
