A man who has been without a woman for a long time will be very stressed physically and mentally. Similarly, a woman who has been without a boyfriend for a long time will also experience certain changes in her body and mind. So what are the characteristics of women who have been single for a long time?
1. Strong on the outside, fragile on the inside
Most modern women look strong, but no matter how strong they are, they are actually very fragile on the inside. . When she has no one to talk to and no one to rely on, she can only become stronger.
As long as there is someone around her who can make her let go of her fatigue, then she will also take off all the disguises. Women who have been without men for a long time often have little femininity. They speak in a cold tone without enthusiasm; their dressing style is monotonous and colorless; they walk lonely and have no energy.
I once saw a message on the Internet from a 53-year-old long-term single woman. After reading it, I was very sad:
When I was young, I always felt that it was very free to have no children or a husband. Now that I am here Only when I was older did I understand the anxiety and uneasiness inside. Seeing my classmates and friends busy with their children all day long, but I was alone, the loneliness in my heart made me collapse.
2. Longing for love, but afraid of love
The longer you are single, the more eager you are to start a family. Desire for an intimate relationship with a man. But at the same time, he is afraid of being unkind to others and causing trouble to himself.
Women who have been single for a long time are often used to living alone. She is afraid that after forming an intimate relationship, her life will be disrupted and her free time will be reduced. She is even more afraid that dating someone with poor conditions will bring her down. quality of life.
Modern women are generally very realistic. If neither one of two people has a high-quality life, then it is better not to be together.
On the one hand, they long for someone who truly likes them, and on the other hand, they hope that their quality of life will improve. I kept weighing and choosing, but in the end I found it was getting harder and harder.
It takes courage and impulse to truly enter a relationship, but the longer you are single, the more rational people become, and it is difficult to stay with someone in a moment of enthusiasm.
Longing and fear, wanting to fall in love but not daring to fall in love. Being entangled in this emotion over and over makes me feel tired. Once a woman has been in a long-term relationship for more than two years, it is difficult for her to enter a stable relationship because she has little courage to start.
There are many single women with good conditions around them. Perhaps deep down in their hearts, they also yearn for a stable home and someone they can talk to, but they are afraid of having to face the consequences after entering a relationship. Endless trouble.
3. HabitsWhen you are alone, you have fewer and fewer friends
The longer you are single, the more accustomed you are to being alone. Colleagues, friends and classmates have basically started families and put most of their energy into their children and significant other. There is no longer a suitable time and place for gatherings, opportunities for contact are getting fewer and fewer, and the number of meetings is also decreasing year by year.
The longer you are single, the more accustomed you become to being with yourself, running alone, climbing mountains, and watching movies alone.
When I was young, I always called my friends, stayed up late and sang together. Slowly, your friends all have fixed partners, and the intersection between you becomes less and less.
Sometimes, I am eager to make new friends, but I am afraid of causing trouble to myself. Once you've been single for a long time, you really don't like disturbing others, or being disturbed by others.
I am used to reveling in a person's world, used to facing the night alone, used to savoring the joys and sorrows of life alone.
A woman who has been without a man for a long time may seem to have no difference, but in fact the difference is very obvious. When a woman has a fixed partner for a long time, her body and mind will become relaxed. Because she is nourished by love, she will have a peaceful mind and face life more calmly.
A woman who has not had a partner for a long time will have a relatively tense life. She seems to be trying her best to face it, but she is often in an anxious stage inside. They are afraid that if they relax, they will have no one to rely on.
