Nowadays, more and more men and women are looking for their partners through blind dates for work or family reasons. However, due to the lack of love experience, they often don’t know what to say or talk about when meeting on a blind date for the first time. Just talking will make the atmosphere very awkward.
Below, the editor will bring you 5 topics for the first blind date meeting, so that everyone can say goodbye to awkward conversations.
1. Your own family
Although everyone’s living environment is different, they all live with their closest relatives. Among relatives, there will always be people who have a greater influence on you. By talking about your family, you can get a good understanding of this person's growth experience. At the same time, you can understand this person's character through his attitude towards his family. If a person continues to If you don't have a good sense of intimacy with your family, you need to carefully consider whether such a person is worth dating.
2. Talk about hobbies
“You usually like to go to the cinema Movies?" "Do you have any animals you like to raise?" "Do you like running with your friends?" These are very life-oriented and down-to-earth topics, which make it easier to establish common topics.
When a common topic is established, you can take the opportunity to make an invitation for your next date, such as "Since you also like to go to the cinema to watch movies, why don't we go together next weekend." If a girl If she agrees to your invitation, it means that the girl is interested in you.
3. Food
Nowadays, although many girls clamor to lose weight, But he still claims to be a foodie, so talking about delicious food is a topic of mutual interest.
Furthermore, when talking about food, we can extend it to what food is delicious, what kind of food will prevent us from gaining weight, and whether both parties can cook. If the conversation is good, you can directly invite girls to go on a date, or prepare for the next time. Make preparations for the date.
4. Travel experience
There are very few modern people who would not like it Traveling. For example, where have you been, what interesting things happened, etc., can all be good starters for conversation. At this time, you can be more proactive and ask her where else she wants to go. If she says she has always wanted to go to such and such a place, your chance to show off will come. After talking about this, you have learned a lot about her knowledge background, interests and hobbies.
5. Work
Let’s talk about everyone’s work and what interesting things they have. What are the annoying things? Such relaxed and pleasant topics can relieve the tense and awkward atmosphere of meeting for the first time. However, you have to take control of the initiative, and remember not to complain to girls about negative things at work, and don’t always talk about yourself. When appropriate, ask a girl about her work situation, and ask her to share her interesting or embarrassing things. In this way Only then can the relationship between two people be quickly brought closer.
In short, when you meet for the first time on a blind date, it is best to start the conversation as an old friend, and try not to ask girls personal questions right from the beginning, because your relationship is not that familiar yet. .
The most important thing is to quickly ignite the other person's desire to chat with you through the chat topic, relieve the tense and awkward dating atmosphere between both parties, and pave the way for you to become boyfriend and girlfriend in the future.
