Love and marriage are a matter of two people. In many cases, it is not the wishful thinking of one party that can lead to the end. If a man and a woman are not suitable, even if they are together, there will be many conflicts. What are the symptoms of the inappropriateness of a man and a woman? ?
What are the signs of inappropriateness between men and women?
1. Don’t understand each other’s thoughts
Although it looks harmonious on the surface, in fact The real feeling is very uncomfortable. Sometimes two people seem to be a perfect match. Outsiders look at you as happy, but only you know that when two people get along, they are not so comfortable! If there is no such love, don't waste it! Keep developing. If it goes on, it will undoubtedly make the two people feel more painful, and of course there will be no turning point.
2. It is very difficult to be with each other
Even if two people are together, they will not communicate together. Instead, they will do their own thing and play their own thing, even in many situations. Sometimes I still hope that I can play with others, and I will feel that I am happier, happier, and more relaxed when I play with others. In this case, it means that you are really tired of this relationship.
3. No longer willing to communicate seriously with the other party
Even if they quarrel, two people are just emotions vent, and are unwilling to tell the other party their true thoughts. At the same time, they feel deeply tired every time they quarrel, but do not want to reconcile with the other party, or they are very passive in reconciling with the other party. In this case, this This relationship has made you very tired.
4. You will feel tired when you think of the other person
When you think of the other person, you will feel deeply tired, and you are not willing to listen to many things the other person said, or you may not listen to what the other person said. If you want to talk to you, you will feel upset when the other party calls you.
2. How to judge whether you should break up
When two people live together, it is even more important to What is more important is that they should share with each other what happened in their lives, their happiness and pain. In many cases, if there are two people with different views, then the pain and happiness you mentioned to the other person will not be the same at all. You are willing to accept it, but you don’t want to understand it. Just like if you tell him that some interesting things happened when you went on a trip, the other person will think that it is better to lie on the bed at home. For this kind of people who have no common language, it is really difficult. Very psychologically.
Or you are a person who prefers sports, fitness and traveling, because this way you feel that your life will be very fulfilling, but your significant other may have different ideas from you and think that you Doing this is a waste of money, happiness is to be with peopleWhat you share together cannot be hidden. When you share this happiness with a person who has different views, he may think that you are showing off to him. Just imagine, when you tell your partner some interesting things , but the other party did not accept it, but dropped a basin of cold water from head to heel. What he got in return was cynicism, which made everyone feel completely empty.
