In the process of chasing girls, you may have encountered situations where girls say that they are slow to warm up. Some people analyze that girls who say that they are slow to warm up basically mean rejection. In fact, this statement is not necessarily accurate. It depends on the following four specific situations. to analyze.
1. Look at girls’ personalities
Those girls with slow personalities don’t like to socialize very much and have social intuition. She is also insensitive, and it is difficult for her to identify whether a boy's feelings for her are genuine or fake. Therefore, introverted girls may not dare to easily accept the pursuit of a boy, especially in an intimate relationship such as love. And this kind of introverted girl tells you that she is slow to warm up. In fact, she is really slow to warm up. She needs time to slowly adapt to accept the pursuit of a strange boy. So in this case, when a girl says she is slow to warm up, she is not necessarily rejecting you.
2. Have girls ever had emotional scars?
For a girl who has never been in love or has relatively few emotional experiences, if a boy pursues her, she will Because she lacks experience in this area, she doesn't dare to start a relationship with a boy rashly, so she will use the excuse of being slow to start and spend a long time examining you to see if you are the lover she wants.
For those girls who have been emotionally hurt, because their previous emotional experiences have caused serious damage to her, she will be wary of new relationships. It is difficult for her to trust the boy who pursues her because she is afraid of being hurt again, which means that you do not feel safe enough for her. In this case, when a girl says she is slow to warm up, she actually does not trust you, and it does not count as rejection.
3. Are girls rational?
Maybe many people are more emotional in relationships, especially girls. It is easy to be emotional, but in fact, girls can also be rational in their relationships. For example, some girls have very strict criteria for choosing a mate, and they have their own plans for their future relationships. If the boy pursuing her does not meet her requirements for mate selection, or the timing of the boy pursuing her is wrong (she is still taking exams or she is unemployed) rising period), then a girl who can think rationally will be particularly cautious, and they will consider whether to accept you from a long-term perspective. So she would say slow down to delay.
4. Girls’ attitude towards you
Of course, if a girl says she is slow to warm up, she may be rejecting this. This can be seen in many ways. For example, does a girl reply to you when she chats with you, whether she replies to you with more or less content, and whether she is active in chatting with you. The second thing is to look at the girl’s attitude towards your date, whether she will come out when you ask her out, whether she behaves like letting go, whether your interaction is pleasant during the date, whether she is shy and unable to let go, or is she always focus on playing handsThe machine doesn't really communicate with you at all... You can tell from the girl's attitude towards you whether the girl is rejecting you or is really slow to warm up. You need to give her time to adapt to your relationship.
Conclusion: When a girl says she is slow to warm up, it does not necessarily mean she is rejecting it. Maybe she is really just slow to warm up. Observe more details of a girl’s behavior and you will know whether she is really slow to warm up or really refuses.
