Inadvertently, the girl you have an ambiguous relationship with suddenly ignores you. I believe many people have encountered this situation in the process of chasing girls.
Below, we will analyze the four reasons why girls ignore me without deleting or blocking me, as well as some countermeasures.
1. Hot and cold
In the process of chasing girls, there is actually an important interference factor --sense of security.
When a girl’s sense of security is unstable, she will easily become hot and cold when it comes to relationships. Therefore, for a period of time you will feel that you are in love with each other, and for a period of time you will feel that the girl’s attitude Very cold.
Girls care about details very much. Maybe a "little mistake" on your part will make her think about your love and make her feel that your love is unreal, which will make her shy away from love.
When a girl gets over the novelty, if your relationship with the girl has not made substantial progress, then your emotional state may be entangled in hot and cold patterns.
Therefore, if a girl ignores you without deleting or blocking you, it is because of your lack of mobility, which makes her not convinced of your love and makes her feel hesitant, so she becomes hot and cold towards you. .
2. You are not that important
Maybe girls just play with you at the beginning, and you But I fell too deep!
Kissing you, kissing, kissing, you kissed me so realistically that I took the false love as the most sincere kiss. I blamed myself for not having time to distinguish whether you were passionate about me or just perfunctory...
You think a girl has feelings for you, but she just uses you as a temporary pastime.
You are not that important in her heart at all. It is just a specific time, a specific opportunity, and a specific mood that allowed you to have a common experience.
When this girl returns to life, she will completely forget you. You are just an ordinary friend in her WeChat list. She will not delete, block or ignore you. This is just normal.
3. Use you as a spare tire
Men can flirt with girls at will, but of course women also have spare tires. nature.
From a biological perspective, men will look for more women to spread their genes; women will choose better-quality men to combine with them to produce healthier next generations.
When a girl uses you as a backup, she will call you when she needs you. Of course, when she doesn’t need you, she will not delete, block or ignore you.
When a girl uses you as a backup, she actually has no real feelings for you. She is just using your love for her to guide you to spend money for her..
Only by seeing clearly a girl’s feelings for you as early as possible can you get rid of the backup path.
4. Give up on you
The relationship between a girl and you is not static.
A girl may like you more because she gets to know you better, or she may choose to give up on you after seeing your true nature.
This is all based on your intrinsic value as a person. Maybe you are very attractive at first and make girls like you.
However, the key to maintaining a long-term relationship is not attraction, but your true value, your character, your future, your connotation...
When a girl feels that you " No", they will hint at giving up on you by not deleting, blocking or ignoring you.
