Divorced women, because they have been hurt in marriage, will generally be discouraged and disappointed with the outside world, and will be more wary and distrustful of those who pursue her. Therefore, if you fall in love with a divorced woman, you may have a feeling that no matter you No matter how hard you pursue, the other party remains unmoved, a cold feeling.
So how should you pursue a divorced woman?
1. Sincerity< /strong>
Many people will say that to chase a girl, all you need is money. This idea is definitely wrong. You must know that sincerity is the best medicine for love. Divorced women have seen too many aspects of marriage. Money can solve many problems, but it cannot give you the warmth of a family.
If a divorced woman is just for money, she can stay in the marriage. If she can leave the original marriage, she hopes to gain respect, understanding and love.
Because they have seen all the prosperity of the world, they are no longer little girls who have just graduated, and they are not fish that will be easily fooled. When it comes to courting her, there's no use sweet-talking her.
Of course, many of the tricks used to chase girls should not be used on divorced women, because these tricks and techniques are not suitable for her. It may even deduct points for you.
Using these techniques, it is better to sincerely tell her what you have and that you want to live a good life with her. Even if you have many concerns, you can tell her at the same time.
In the process of getting along with her, she can receive every word, every look, and every action you say. Only sincerity can melt her aloofness and touch her heart.
2. Be patient
Divorced women usually feel that for a long time after the divorce, all men in the world are Big liar, and then fell into a deep pain that he couldn't extricate himself from. The length of this period of depression is directly proportional to the degree of heartbreak in a woman. If you fall in love with a divorced woman, you will find that she is very aloof and it is difficult to get close to her. Her heart is closed, as if she does not leave a chance to anyone. At this time, if you want to catch up with her, you must have enough patience, start from being the most ordinary friend, and don't show excessive concern or be too attentive every day, otherwise it will be easy to disgust her.
3. Don’t ask about her past when chatting
In this society , even if they are as close as parents and children. There are many things that cannot be said directly to each other. Needless to say, between lovers. Although men and women can be honest with each other, they can be good to each other.feeling and intimacy. But men, if you like a divorced woman, you must suppress your curiosity when approaching her. Just touch on her past and her last failed marriage. She is full of doubts about the terms marriage and husband and wife, so don't go into too much detail. A divorced woman has a very low sense of security, and is more sensitive and delicate than ordinary women. Once you fail to grasp that level, she will be like a frightened bird and immediately put away her little curiosity about you. In this way, it will be even more difficult for you to chase her.
4. Be good to her children and family
Divorced A large number of women have children with their ex-husbands. Even if she breaks all ties with her ex-husband, they will never see each other again in this life. But she and her own children are inseparable in this life. Women who have children naturally put their children first. They must first consider their children in future life and remarriage. So if the woman you love has a baby, you might as well start by being nice to the baby. If the baby likes you, the mother will definitely have a better impression of you.
For a divorced woman without children, if you want to pursue her, try your best to be nice to her family. No matter in any period, being filial and being kind to family members are always plus points for a man.
It is indeed difficult for a divorced woman to open her heart to others, but in the final analysis she is just an ordinary woman, just a little cold and sensitive. Remember these four tips, and you will definitely get married!
