It seems to be a woman’s nature to be jealous. Maybe because her boyfriend glances at another person of the opposite sex, she will be jealous and feel that her boyfriend does not love her anymore. So do you know why women are so jealous?
1. Why women are jealous
1. Because of love
If a woman If I don’t love you, just look at any woman and care about her. It’s because I love you and care about you that I don’t want you to look at other women, flirt with other women, or flirt with other women.
Don’t blame women for being petty, it’s because they love you. Comparing your feelings, if she flirts with other men, would you feel comfortable? If you don't feel anything at all, it can only mean that you don't love her.
2. Possessiveness
Possessiveness is not just for men, women also have it. Even in the old feudal society, if you look at the many queens and concubines in the emperor's harem, who are not scheming and jealous? Everyone wants to dominate the emperor.
No woman wants to share the same man with others. She wants to possess this man alone and possess all of him. Therefore, as long as a woman feels that she cannot possess all of this man, she will Will be jealous.
3. Sense of security
No matter how much a man dotes on this woman, the reality that cannot be changed is that men are strong and women are weak, and it is still a patriarchal society. Women's sense of security comes from men. Men who love women deeply can make women feel very safe. Likewise, a man's uncertainty can make a woman feel insecure. For example, a woman is afraid that a third party will intervene and cause her to no longer be loved. In this case, can a woman not be jealous?
4. Lack of self-confidence
A woman who lacks self-confidence will often set up many imaginary enemies for herself, thinking that many people are interested in her boyfriend or husband and want to seduce her man. Then she got into a big fight with the man. Such an excessive lack of self-confidence is actually inferiority complex. Women should still be more confident. Confident women are the most beautiful.
5. Fear of loss
Also because of the patriarchal society, men are the backbone of women. If this pillar of support is lost, women will be at a loss as to what to do. Therefore, a big reason why women are jealous is the fear of losing. Especially when there are many cheating husbands around this woman, it will make the woman fear that her husband will follow in the same footsteps, and she may have wrong interpretations of some of the men's actions, and then become jealous.
2. Signs of jealousy in women
1. Become silent
We know that women are generally talkativeMore often than not, if she suddenly becomes silent, it must be that you have done something to make her unhappy. It may be that you talked too much to other women, or you may have unintentionally praised other women. This will make her jealous.
But some women don’t show their jealousy in a very public way, they just keep silent and don’t want to talk to you no matter what you say, but it’s obvious that she must be angry with you. In fact, many times when a woman is jealous, she undoubtedly feels that she is not taken seriously or cared about. At this time, if you coax her and tease her more, she will get better soon.
2. Being sarcastic to you
We know that when a woman is jealous, she undoubtedly thinks that you are good to other women and ignore your own feelings. Many times you just look at others too much. , she can't do it either, and starts to ridicule you intentionally or unintentionally, and speaks strangely. In fact, at this time, she undoubtedly wants to attract your attention, and she wants to tell you indirectly that she is jealous.
At this time, her jealousy is a bit strong. Men should not be stupid and think that the other party is making trouble unreasonably. At this time, they should coax her and calm her uneasy mood.
3. Losing temper
It is possible that you just said a few words to other members of the opposite sex. It may be that you are just doing the opposite sex a favor in good faith, but women are naturally fond of association and are particularly afraid of losing you. At such times, they will have random thoughts and lose their temper for no reason.
In fact, she just doesn’t feel safe, is afraid that you don’t love her anymore, and is afraid of the possibility of losing you, so she expresses her opinions in this not very rational way. At this time, as long as she holds Her, comfort her well and she will calm down.
4. Comparing yourself with others
This situation usually occurs when you unintentionally praise another person of the opposite sex, which makes her feel a sense of crisis and unconsciously compare herself with others. Comparing with others and asking you which one is better, the reason for such childish behavior is just because you are jealous and want to know your status in your heart.
At this time, a man must give a woman reassurance and confirm her status in your heart, so that the woman will not be reluctant. Only a woman who loves you deeply will be so cute when she is jealous. performance.
