In the relationship between men and women, women generally leave room for words when talking to men they are not familiar with, and are usually polite enough. This situation shows that women just treat you as an ordinary person. So what does it mean if a woman complains to you?
1. Women treat you as an emotional trash can
Some women complaining to you may just want to vent their emotions to you, and the most important criterion for women to find someone to talk to is this People know very little about my circle of friends, so they won’t have the opportunity to tell her other friends what she confided in you today. This is a safe person to talk to. This also shows that you are an emotional trash can for women and a good bestie in China. But it doesn't matter. You won't lose anything by being a good person in this matter, as long as you have enough time.
@黄黄黄: As an introverted and silent person, I have encountered many times sudden emotional outpourings from people of the opposite sex who I am not familiar with, and even some absolute privacy that cannot be revealed to others. In my experience, you are just treated as a harmless person to talk to. That's all. Once the crisis is over and you get out of the tree hole, she will be active again and forget all about you, leaving you still entangled in her story.
2. Women have a crush on you
In fact, while a woman is complaining to you, she is also Given the chance, you and her can actually develop into a romantic relationship during that period of time. Of course, if a woman keeps telling you when she is unhappy, she will gradually form a kind of anchor. She associates you with feelings of unhappiness and sadness. Once she thinks of you, she will naturally have negative emotions. Everyone pursues happiness and a pleasant feeling. Therefore, you'd better take a woman out to play and be with her when she is in a good mood and happy, so that she will be happy when she thinks of you, and the chances will be greater.
The best way to judge whether a woman has a crush on you or treats you as an emotional trash can is: when a woman is complaining to you, she tells you some messy things, and then you He did not give an on-point, reciprocal and very accurate response to what she said, or tried to start a new topic. At this time, look at the woman's reaction and see if she continues with your topic or continues her own topic. If she continues her topic regardless of what you say, you can judge that she is not really talking to me, she just wants to vent her emotions.
3. Women trust you
Everyone has times when they are emotionally fragile, and they need someone at that time. People talk to others, so she complains to you because she trusts you, and you are a kind of support for her. But it doesn't explain anything. Don't think too much, just grab the right one. If a woman treats you as her confidant. Being with you, she feelsFeel very comfortable. She treats you more than a friend and less than a lover. It will still be possible for you in the future. But as for whether there will be a future, it depends on how hard you work and how much she likes you.
Summary: No matter what a woman complains to you and implies, a man only needs to continue. If a woman just treats you as an emotional trash can, You also have enough time, and it would be good to listen to what she has to say. If a woman wants to hear your comfort, then take her out of her negative emotions and have a happy chat with you.
