I don’t need to say too much. I think everyone knows that people with high emotional intelligence are really attractive. This is why many friends hope to improve their emotional intelligence through continuous learning and exercise. . So do you know what are the symptoms of low emotional intelligence? Today, the editor has summarized 8 small details for you. Let’s see if you really have low emotional intelligence.
1. Can’t understand other people’s subtext
For example - next time it must be = Monday, then talk again Bar = 32nd, I will have time in the future = 13 months, I don’t like to trouble others = there is nothing urgent, please don’t bother me... I often ask questions again and again when chatting with others, which is very embarrassing.
2. Unable to control one's emotions
When encountering problems, you must vent them. You have no ability to digest and correct yourself. Your emotions are all written on your face. As long as you let yourself have a little Unhappy things will be externalized in an instant regardless of the feelings of the people around you.
3. The most miserable one in the world
If you encounter any pressure, you will want to give up; if you encounter the unknown, you will run away; if you encounter any unhappiness, you will cry bitterly. When you encounter a little bit of pressure, you will make yourself overwhelmed. I feel like I am extremely depressed when something happens. I am the most miserable person in the world and I have no ability to withstand setbacks.
4. Extremely aggressive towards others
As long as others have different ideas from you, or you don’t like them, you must say something to them. You often like to chat about current affairs. Gossip, become a keyboard warrior on the Internet, and attack in various ways.
5. Don’t know what impact your actions will have on others
Speak straight and act straight. The bars are straight. You have no idea what impact your actions will have on others. It is the most tiring to get along with such a person. You have to wipe his butt all the time.
6. The problems are all other people’s
I’m right, I don’t have a problem, it’s her, she’s too domineering, she wants too much, she’s too materialistic . There are always some people who are the embodiment of perfection, the myths of the world, and whose problems are all other people's.
7. Excessive dedication
As long as you meet a girl you like, and you are still waiting for her to express her feelings, you will start to threaten to go through fire and water for her, no matter what, and give her your heart and soul. The most basic self-love is gone.
I always think that as long as I treat someone unconditionally, I will influence that person sooner or later. Being with such a boy is very tiring.
8. Unable to stand on one's own
I have to ask others for help in everything I do, and I am even suspected of being bound by morality:
We are best friends. You don't even have this little moneyAre you not willing to lend me a loan?
What’s wrong with helping me? Why are you so stingy...
The above are the 8 signs of low emotional intelligence summarized by the editor, but Having said that, it doesn't matter even if you find that your emotional intelligence is a little low, you can improve it by watching more and learning more. Come on~!
