Introverted girls are usually in a passive state. Even if she has a heart that is ready to move, she will not express it easily. Therefore, communication problems will inevitably occur when meeting an introverted girl on a blind date, but you just happen to have a good relationship with this introverted girl. What should I do if a blind date girl falls in love at first sight, and how should I pursue her later to get her?
1. The attitude must be sincere He Ziran
When you meet an introverted girl on a blind date, if you want to develop further with her, don't scare her away when you first meet her. Don't pretend to be a cold and reserved handsome man, that will easily put her off. Face her with a sincere and natural attitude and convey your sincerity and authenticity. Introverted girls are easily impressed by these elements.
2. Take the initiative to start some topics
Most introverted girls will not take the initiative to start topics. So at this time, as a boy, you should take the initiative to open up common topics to help each other talk. This is also a good opportunity to get to know each other. Interests, hobbies, and any small things in work and life can be used as topics, but it should be noted that when communicating with introverted girls, the interaction between the two must be strengthened. Questions from time to time, listening to each other's words, and eye contact cannot be ignored. . In fact, as long as you practice social etiquette, dating an introverted girl is not a problem.
3. Take the initiative to add WeChat
As we said at the beginning, introversion Even if some girls are interested in you, they are too embarrassed to take the initiative to add you on WeChat before the blind date is over. Therefore, you must pay attention to keep smiling and find ways to interact with each other. Take the initiative to add the other person's WeChat account before the blind date ends to prevent the other person from thinking that you are not interested in her at all.
As long as you do the above 3 points, your blind date will be perfect. After this blind date is over, you still need to:
1. Make her happy
Introverted girls prefer a humorous boy to open her heart. If you fall in love with an introverted girl, then the skill of making people happy and My shamelessness is getting deeper. Make her happy and work hard to gain her approval.
2. Try to date in a comfortable place
In an unfamiliar place Dating in an environment can easily make introverted girls feel reserved and uncomfortable. Therefore, if we want to reduce risks, it is best to choose a comfortable and relaxing environment, which is both beneficial andTaking off your guard against the other party will also help improve the quality of the date. If conditions permit, you can also bring one or two mutual friends.
3. Pay more attention to the changes in the atmosphere during a date
When dating an introverted girl, you should pay special attention to the changes in the atmosphere and avoid frequent complaints, indignation, ridicule, etc. Bad emotions, these emotions can actually greatly ruin the fun of dating and bring negative energy to the other person. In fact, no one likes a person who has a cloudy face and is full of complaints. If you want to be accepted by an introverted girl, then use your sunshine energy of loving life and loving hard to infect her.
4. Learn to guide her topics during the date
Introverted Girls don't like to talk, and they won't take the initiative to talk to people they don't know well. Therefore, if you want to catch her, you need to guide her to talk. The best way is: just take the initiative to tell your story and let her listen. At the appropriate time, guide her to slowly start talking about herself. When you two have a good conversation, that's a good start.
5. Give appropriate surprises
In fact, some small romantic surprises are what girls want, and the same goes for introverted girls. The most important thing is During holidays, especially days that girls think are very important, you can express yourself well, create surprises for girls, and let girls feel your sincerity, thereby touching her heart.
6. Be more patient
Get to know each other, then attract each other, and finally fall in love. Therefore, the countermeasures for introverted girls are: just open her heart during the stage of getting to know each other, and the subsequent process will be much smoother. Men should be more patient and help her slowly open her heart and get into her heart. Chat with her more often and start as a friend. Don't think about making her your lover in a few days.
