During the relationship, girlfriends often ask all kinds of questions to prove that their boyfriends love them. Faced with such questions, many boys cannot answer them. Today, the editor will teach you how to answer some questions that girls often use to torture their boyfriends.
1. "You are right, it is all my fault"
Female: You are right, it is all my fault
Male: Since you have admitted your mistake, I will kneel down first and respect you
Analysis: Usually when girls say similar things , her mood swings will be relatively large, and she may even be really angry. At this time, we should not continue to expand her negative emotions.
You can "show weakness" to her by joking, easing the tense atmosphere at the moment, and then cleverly change the topic to appease the other person's emotions.
From a psychological point of view, if two people often quarrel together, in order to avoid rifts in the relationship, both parties should jointly agree on a "truce signal" and adopt non-violent communication methods.
2. "How did you break up with your ex?"
Girl: Why did you break up with your ex?
Male: Because my ex felt that she was not good enough for me, we broke up.
Analysis: The topic of ex is always a headache for most boys, because no matter how you answer, girls will inevitably continue to ask questions.
It’s not that you must not talk about exes, it’s just that most people can’t talk about them well, which can easily give girls the feeling of “you are disconnected from your ex” or “there must be something wrong with you if your ex leaves you” .
So there are two key points in the response idea. One is to accept and change the topic naturally instead of talking about it; the other is to show that you have really let go and can say it with a smile. And try not to say bad things about your ex.
We can respond in the above exaggerated way, which will make girls think you are more humorous without putting yourself in an embarrassing situation.
3. "We are good friends"
Female: We are good friends
Male: We can be a little bad, let's go, later Go raid hot pot restaurants
Analysis: Usually when you reveal your intention to confess, you will have the above conversation with a girl. In fact, the purpose of girls saying this is to observe your reaction when you face setbacks.
If you act angry because of being rejected, she will naturally think of the internal conflict between you when facing difficulties together in the future, and will no longer want to contact you. At the same time, you have also exposed your sense of need;
But if you cleverly misinterpret her meaning, you can easilyA good way to weaken the pressure brought by the previous confession to her, and to test her attitude towards you without damaging the relationship.
4. "Please help me buy a bottle of water"
Female: Please buy me a bottle of water Bar
Male: Let’s do rock-paper-scissors. If you win, I’ll buy you water. If you lose, you kiss me.
Analysis: Faced with the other party’s request, we both You can use this way of playing games to set up some small obstacles to add interest. There are three meanings behind it:
First, the person who does more for the other person does not mean that he loves the other person more. On the contrary, the other person will not cherish it because he gets it too easily.
The second is based on the principle of value exchange. Love is mutual. You can do something for her, and she should also give something to you.
Third, if you form a relationship pattern of "she makes demands and you satisfy them" in the early stages of dating, it will be detrimental to the development of long-term relationships in the future.
