When we get to know girls through WeChat, we often encounter girls who stop replying to messages and ignore you after saying hello and not even chatting for a few words.
You must know that there are many reasons why girls ignore you on WeChat: maybe the girl is busy; maybe the girl finds chatting with you boring; or maybe you make the girl uncomfortable during the chat. Feel.
No matter what the reason is, as long as the girl doesn’t delete you, we can still make her interested in chatting with us again. It just requires some skills.
1. After cooling down for a period of time, start with an interesting emoticon package
Emoticon packages are the most popular expression package since the birth of the Internet. One of the great inventions is that if we directly use words and language to express a meaning, some things will appear ordinary and ineffective. But sending a corresponding expression, this form of picture expression that bypasses language, can often work wonders, so emoticon packs have a three-dimensional expression ability.
For those of you who don’t have good language skills and are not humorous enough, 99% of the reasons why a girl doesn’t want to talk to you is because she thinks you are boring.
At this time, emoji packs can help you. First, cool down the girl for a period of time and let the negative feelings clear up. But the time should not be too long, just one or two days, otherwise the sense of connection will be broken. After cooling down, we can use emoticons to conduct roundabout operations and three-dimensional strikes.
Funny and interesting emoticons are equivalent to changing your whole style. You are no longer the rigid and boring you that girls had in mind before. This will make her very happy to reply to you.
2. The topic should be to the point
"Have you had lunch?"
The girl doesn’t reply...
"What are you doing?"
The girl doesn’t reply...
People who watch this kind of conversation are very sad, but There are quite a few boys who are chatting in this state. It is clear that the girl will not reply, but they still send her messages on their own.
The reason why this happens is because when these brothers initiate the topic, they are only thinking about what they want to say.
But on the premise that girls are no longer interested in you, it doesn’t actually matter what you want to say. Especially because a girl loses interest because she feels that you don't have the value she needs. Basically, she doesn't bother to reply to you no matter what you say.
Girls want to hear what you say to her, and being able to accept what you say to her is the most important thing!
So we have to get to the point directly and send it to girls. Only targeted and lethal news can make her focus back on you.
For example:
Girls think you don’t know how to dress up and dress in a rustic way.If it doesn't match her aesthetic, you can show the girl your new image after transformation, which is the value she needs.
However, how to show this? Of course, you can’t just send a photo and use a handsome photo to blur your face. This approach is too purposeful and can easily make girls think you are here to slap them in the face. Then even if you already have the value she needs, she won't be attracted to you.
You can do this: go to the bar with your friends in a new image, then record the scene of you playing, let yourself appear in this short video, and then send this short video to her . When the girl took a look, hey, this guy has become more handsome, he is no longer the rustic young man he was before.
With the value she needs, she will no longer be too lazy to care about you. Next, she will definitely ask you where you played, did you have fun and so on!
3. Don’t end the chat every time after draining the topic.
Some brothers caught a good topic while chatting. I just kept chatting with the girl until the topic was exhausted and both parties didn't know what else to say before it ended in frustration.
But this approach is also the reason why girls don’t like to reply to your messages.
You must know that a good topic cannot be found at any time. Squeezing out a talkable topic at once will easily cause the subsequent topic library to be exhausted. Moreover, this behavior of chatting until both parties lose interest will make girls feel tired.
Because in the last period of time when a topic is about to be squeezed out, both parties need to rack their brains to think about how to answer the other party's words, then your chatting with her will become a hard work and no fun at all. , of course girls lose interest in you.
When we feel that a topic has almost reached its end, we can use legitimate reasons such as having something to do or going to sleep to cut off the topic in time, and say that we will talk about it next time, leaving a tail.
Doing this has three advantages: first, it leaves a good reason for chatting next time; second, it allows a good topic to be used sustainably and fully taps its value; third, it maintains a sense of comfort for both parties. Make girls more willing to chat with you next time.
4. Be careful when chatting with girls
For boys, a few good buddies There are often some rude catchphrases between them. Everyone is used to it and does not think that speaking like this is a curse. It doesn't matter if good buddies talk more straightforwardly.
But I still can’t change my habit when chatting with girls. It’s not a good thing to continue talking like a brother.
“RNM, today there was a sudden heavy rain and I got wet.”
“NMB, why are you so awesome?”
Although your foul words are just modal particles and interjections to you, to a girl, they are naked swear words! She is not your good friend, and there is no reason to tolerate someone who talks foul words to you. A boy who talks dirty.
Boys who often use catchphrases must remember to restrain this habit when chatting with girls, and send messages a little slower to avoid blurting out something inappropriate.
After discovering that a girl no longer cares about you, it is best to sincerely apologize to the girl and say that you will pay attention to the propriety of your words in the future.
A girl ignores you for this reason. Generally speaking, as long as you change it, her bad feeling will disappear easily. As long as you don't make this mistake again in the future, you can still develop smoothly.
