How long does the ambiguous period of love usually last? Generally speaking, men and women should not be ambiguous for more than a month, because the freshness of ambiguity is difficult to sustain. If the ambiguous man and woman cannot confirm the relationship within the ambiguous period, the result will basically be fruitless. This is why many men and women have been ambiguous for a long time without results. reason. The following is a detailed analysis for everyone:
1. The first one: the scumbag man and the scumbag girl are ambiguous
In this case, both boys and girls are players who know their feelings well. Ming, you know how feelings progress and what's going on.
At this time, what do the scumbags think during the ambiguous stage: The scumbag will think that he will "win" her immediately and just spend the lowest cost to get her.
What do you think, this scumbag: You’re already so ambiguous, why don’t you pay me money? How to hang you? I’ve made the prompts clear enough!
In fact, both parties have known it for a long time - you guys just want to advance the relationship as quickly as possible, while girls just want to cash in as quickly as possible and enjoy your boy's pampering and dedication, so there is no need to pretend. don't know. Even if it reaches the ambiguous stage, what will happen? Both parties are scumbags and scumbags, and both want the other to give themselves and enjoy themselves, so they stare at each other and wait.
As time goes by, who will have time to wait for you? Eggs cannot be put in one basket. Boys think there are so many girls waiting for me. Why should I wait for you? Girls want so many licking dogs to give me gifts. If you are so difficult, I won’t wait for you. Wouldn’t it be natural to ignore the other person? Let's go and play our own things.
2. The second one: Ambiguity between a scumbag man and a serious woman
When a scumbag man meets a serious woman Girls, girls are serious about falling in love. At this time, the scumbag uses various love-talking techniques to chat and promote the relationship. As long as a girl has a little bit of brains, she will easily see through the identity of the "scumbag". He talks greasy, is always informal, always chatting, and casually says ambiguous things. It may be a good disguise, but in the final ambiguous stage, a girl can tell at a glance whether your boy really wants to fall in love.
Because when the relationship is finalized, girls will remain rational enough to examine and observe your character as a boy. The ambiguous period is the final stage of mutual love. If a girl feels that the relationship is advancing too quickly and starts saying ambiguous words without even understanding each other, she will naturally become wary. Then the relationship will naturally end during the ambiguous period. Girls will see through your scumbag's evil intentions and will naturally not talk to boys.
3. The third one: The serious man and the scumbag are ambiguous
This is very simple. Boys want to When you are in a serious relationship but meet a "female gamer", there are two types of serious boys at this time - pure straight men and boys with online dual quotient.
Just a straight man, a scumbag has a high emotional intelligence and knows how to fool her.Straight men won't accept your words at all. He won't understand what you say and won't think too much about it. Most of the time, it's a chicken-and-duck talk. Your girl can't create an ambiguous atmosphere even if she wants to, and in the end it's the scumbag who gives up on her own initiative. Because boys are not enlightened and don't know how to get along with girls. After being together for a long time, girls feel bored and will naturally choose other goals.
Then there is the boy with high EQ and IQ, he is a serious person, and the frivolous things of a scumbag are just childish in front of him. If he doesn’t want to play with a scumbag, he just looks down on this method. Or just play with the scumbag until the ambiguous stage and let the masters compete with the masters. There will definitely be no result in the end. Everyone knows who the scumbag is. Or just stop playing with the scumbag.
4. Fourth: A serious man and a serious woman are ambiguous
In the last case, men and women are mutually exclusive. They both have feelings for each other and are very sincere. When you reach the ambiguous stage, your mind goes blank. You don't know whether you should hold hands, take the initiative to act out of line, or whether it's appropriate to talk about love. I want to cherish each other, but I am afraid of losing them. And ambiguity is often a short-term feeling. Once you are at a loss, once you miss it, you will never find that feeling of love again.
So, in the end, the relationship dragged on for such a long time, and the feelings for each other became weak and they just ignored each other. The girl thinks that the boy was just impulsive towards her, and now he has calmed down and no longer loves her. Boys think that girls may not really love them, and they are afraid of rejection and dare not take the initiative to promote the relationship. In the end, I can only watch the fate disappear and feel helpless.
In fact, the first three situations are very simple, and you can tell at a glance whether you are truly in love. But the most complicated situation is the last one. Both of them are serious about falling in love but in the end they still can't be together. This is also the fundamental reason why we say not to be ambiguous for a long time. Many ambiguous boys and girls get separated inexplicably like this.
