No matter whether you are single or not, there is a possibility of being matched on a blind date during the Chinese New Year in your hometown. Blind date is like a scourge that makes everyone avoid it. Regardless of whether you plan to find a partner or not, you are always unhappy when you are forced to go on a blind date, so how should you respond correctly to being forced to go on a blind date during the Chinese New Year?
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1. Refuse to go on a blind date
There are many reasons why people don’t want to go on a blind date. For example, if they have a partner, they are not satisfied with their family, they are single but yearn for free love, and they don’t like blind dates. Utilitarianism, etc.
If you are very repelled by this matter in your heart, you can communicate with your family. After all, you are looking for a partner, not them. Tell them whatever you think, whether you don't like the blind date itself, you have someone you like, or you don't want to fall in love, and try to get your family's understanding.
2. Your family insists that you go on a blind date
① If your parents have already met the other person and think that he or she is in good condition, you should go and have a look in order not to disgrace your parents, at least their eyes will not be different. It would be too bad.
The first impression is very important when going on a blind date. If you are determined not to develop a relationship with your blind date, then you can dress yourself up in an unflattering way, so that he or she will definitely not fall in love with you. Instead, dress yourself up.
If you like the other person, pay attention to the topics he likes when chatting. On the contrary, talk about the topics you like.
② If your parents have not met each other yet, but you have only heard from others that the conditions are good, and you are not willing to go on a blind date, then you can discuss with your parents and ask them to help you meet each other first. See if she meets your criteria for choosing a mate.
3. How to adjust your mentality
Many people go on blind dates with a lot of expectations. Strong purpose, boys want to find someone to have children with, and girls want to find someone with a car and a house. Some people worry about what to do if they can't get along with their blind date, or what to do if they can't get along with each other after getting married. I can only say that you are overthinking. Blind date is a process of mutual selection, and it cannot be decided by meeting once or twice.
So I say, mentality is very important. First, a successful blind date does not mean that you must get married or have a relationship. Second, a failed blind date does not mean that you are too bad. It may just be that both parties are not suitable. Third, the key to a successful blind date is your mentality. If we have a bad attitude, we will become a cabbage in the eyes of others, allowing others to pick and choose, and we may even be ridiculed.
The true meaning of blind date is to help you solve your urgent needs when you can’t find any suitable partner around you, and bring you the partner who is most likely to suit you.
If you find that the quality of your blind date partners is very poor, then you should reflect on whether your requirements are too high. The conditions for your blind date partners are all based on your own economic level and family conditions.It is impossible for a person with a monthly salary of several thousand to meet a blind date with a monthly salary of millions, unless your family is very rich.
We can treat the blind date as an ordinary meeting. If we can chat, we can try it. If we can’t, we can change to the next one. There is no need to be too anxious. After all, fate cannot be forced. If it happens to suit you, wouldn’t it be very profitable?
