Many straight male brothers have this question: Why are they chatting well with a girl one second, but then she suddenly becomes angry and cannot be coaxed no matter how hard she says it?
1. Girls’ weight
Appearance, body shape, and weight are all taboo areas for girls, but in In the eyes of many boys, these are their topics of conversation. After all, when hanging out with friends, the most discussed topic is which girl is good-natured and which girl is beautiful. There is nothing wrong with talking about this with brothers and friends.
But in the eyes of girls, it is a vulgar behavior to talk to them about this before the relationship has reached a certain level. Especially your weight!
When a girl sends you a selfie, you must not comment realistically, otherwise you will be greeted by a catastrophic storm. At this time, boys should take out their childhood photos. Tips for cheating mom out of pocket money: I hate people who are as thin as chopsticks. I don’t think you are fat at all. You are just the way you are.
2. When she was losing weight
Nowadays, weight loss is popular among girls. Your friend This must have appeared in the circle:
It is accompanied by a picture of food, and then it says "The last delicious meal, only when you are full can you have the strength to lose weight."
Or: How many kilograms have you gained today? How many kilograms should you lose this month with motivation, and then change your avatar to "I will not change my avatar until I lose XX kilograms."
At this time, you must Don't think that she is determined to fight fat. This is just a girl's self-comfort. So when you get along with her and see her willing to eat delicious food, you must not say: You are not here. Want to lose weight?
Many times girls think about losing weight and eating a big meal at the same time, so all she needs is someone to "force" her to eat. When you are shopping, when she sees a restaurant When you are hesitating, what you should do is take her in immediately without saying anything, instead of "Aren't you trying to lose weight? Stop looking." Such words can easily lead to the girl saying "Okay, then let's not talk about it." ”
3. During her illness
Girls are more likely to get sick than boys, and each There are still a few days in the month, and these are the easiest times for boys to get closer. However, many boys don't know how to talk, or they just feel it doesn't matter. So this often happens:
FemaleStudent: I'm sick. I feel so uncomfortable.
You: Oh, can I give you some medicine?
Girl: It’s too far, no need.
You: Oh, then drink more hot water.
Girls: .....
Girls are duplicitous animals and like to play some tricks of refusing and welcoming. When she says no, you must Don't think that you really don't need it, especially when you are sick. If you want to get closer to her, you need to care more about her and take more practical actions. So, don’t even ask at this time, just bring what you bought.
There are also common situations such as "you don't have to spend money on giving gifts" and "you don't have to come to accompany me". It's a free extra point given to you by a girl. If you don't grasp it well, you will not be happy with her for the rest of your life, and it will only increase your conflicts.
It’s worth mentioning that a girl’s refusal to return a favor only applies to the person she likes. If a girl doesn’t feel for you, then she is really rejecting you. If you persist, it will only ruin your relationship. impression. At this time, don’t touch the mine, just say a few words of concern and go about your own business.
