Many boys are struggling with whether they should give gifts when chasing girls? Many people have asked me relevant questions in private messages. I feel that giving gifts seems a bit high-profile and low-profile, and not giving gifts seems not to pay enough attention to girls. Let’s analyze for everyone whether you should give gifts to chase girls? There is no need to give gifts that are invalid.
1. Do you need to give gifts when you are chasing a girl?
In fact, it is okay to give gifts when you are chasing a girl, but you cannot just give gifts all the time. Gifts must also be rewarded. If you are asking for help, give gifts without expecting anything in return. But is love about asking someone to do things? Of course not, love is something that both parties pay for and enjoy together. To put it simply, people who give gifts without thinking are, to put it bluntly, incompetent and unattractive. They can only increase the other person’s favor by spending money to give gifts.
You must know that upgrading a relationship with a girl does not rely on gifts, and a girl who likes you will not treat her like you just because you forgot a birthday gift. You block him, and a boy she doesn't like, even if he has all the red envelopes for gifts during the holidays, she won't look at him twice. So why do many boys want to give gifts when they chase girls? Because he is afraid, he is afraid of losing her, he is afraid that if he does not send it this time, the girl will be unhappy, and if she is unhappy, you will be out.
But if you think about it carefully, you have given so many gifts and red envelopes to girls, can you get the ticket in her heart? If you have this time to think about what gifts to give, you might as well look at her social media and see how many people are commenting on her. When you see those people licking her, and you are just one of them, Do you still think she values ??the gifts you gave her? Do you still think you can really get into her heart?
2. It is not necessary to give gifts when chasing girls.
In fact, boys need to understand what the purpose of giving gifts to girls is. Whether it is giving gifts or dating, the purpose is the same. In order to upgrade the relationship, no matter how many gifts or expensive gifts they are, you just hope that she will upgrade the relationship with you, right? What if after giving this gift, it will not promote your relationship in any way, but will make the girl feel that you are very annoying, and may even treat you as a cash machine. When she wants to spend money, she will go to you, and when she wants to have fun, she will go to someone else. , then you didn’t give it in vain.
So, when giving gifts to girls, you still have to divide the time. For example, when you confess your love, then give a gift. It’s not too much to send some flowers to create a sense of atmosphere, right? Or if you make a girl angry, then give her a gift that will cause her emotions to fluctuate and make a deeper impression on you. This gift is worth giving. This kind of gift is an effective gift.
Chasing girls is a science, and giving gifts is just one part of it. Many boysHowever, giving gifts to her and being devoted to her was regarded as the core point in the process of pursuing a girl. He made himself fall deeper and deeper into the relationship. He thought about giving more to the girl and impressing the girl. But in fact, he was moved and moved, but there was no way. Make her attracted to you, so don't think about giving her gifts to impress her.
