Even if many boys catch up with girls and find a girlfriend, they will still face a question asked by their girlfriends: is it more important, the game or the girlfriend. Because no matter how much a boy likes his girlfriend, he will also want his own private space. When he is free, he wants to play games and relax. As for your girlfriend, she will feel that you don't accompany her when you are free, and that you don't love her. So today, from the perspective of a boy, we will discuss with you whether games or girlfriends are more important in the eyes of boys? See if it applies to your situation.
Is the game more important or the girlfriend more important?
1. Girlfriend is more important
Us If you like a girl, you chase her, and then she becomes your girlfriend, what can we get?
First of all, the first point is also the most primitive need of brothers, that is, physiological needs. Boys only need to know it in their hearts. I won’t go into details here due to space and various reasons.
The second point is that it satisfies some psychological needs. My girlfriend is good-looking and eye-catching, and my girlfriend’s voice is nice and comfortable. It solves a major issue in my heart and puts a stone in my heart. Naturally It will also be easier.
Third, there will be a sense of accomplishment. When you catch a girl, a boy will feel a sense of accomplishment. The prettier and better-looking the girl is, the higher the sense of accomplishment will be after you catch the girl. If you take your friends out to eat and meet their friends, you will also gain more face.
2. Games are important
Above we have talked about the important points of girlfriends, now let’s talk about games Why is it so attractive to boys?
First of all, the first point is that it can satisfy the various desires of the brothers. For example, if you finally clear the level after playing for a long time, it will satisfy your desire to conquer. Facing a city, the wanton destruction in the game will satisfy your desire for destruction. Desire, even if you can't beat him in a confrontational game, you can still hit the newbie with more practice. No matter how hard it is to attack and be a strong-mouthed king, you can still get a good outlet for the emotions in life.
Second point, compared to chasing girls, the game will have a better-looking paper character wife, a better voice, a better plot, and someone who understands you better than a girlfriend. Brothers, the companionship between brothers will be purely free of monetary interests, there will be less quarrels, and they will be more comfortable getting along with each other.
Third point, if you play the game well, you can also get a good sense of accomplishment. When you see yourself beating the others on the rankings, do you feel like you are inferior to one person and you are playing at the top? You can also be a technical anchor and play professional games. This feeling of being recognized will also give you a very good sense of accomplishment.
Based on the above comparisons, in most cases, the charm of games in the eyes of boys is higher than that of girlfriends, and the cost of chasing girls is high.It also takes a long time, and the psychological quality required is different according to the requirements of different girls. The game is different, the threshold is low, you only need a computer, a mobile phone, and even you only need to be an adult to go to an Internet cafe to play games. Not only the threshold is lower, but also more attractive than girls. So logically speaking, getting along with a girlfriend is more troublesome than playing games, so many boys still want to play games alone even if they have girlfriends.
