As the number of singles continues to increase, blind dates have become the current social norm and the most important and fastest way to get out of singles and find love. According to big data statistics, a person can meet his or her love after an average of 5 blind dates.
The survey shows that 38% of single men and women were less than 23 years old when they first went on a blind date, and 24% of single men and women were under 23. -25 years old. When singleness becomes a common social problem, blind date has become one of the main ways to get out of singleness, and is no longer just a choice for older single men and women.
If you feel that five times is too long and want to meet love faster, then you need to write down these must-read blind date strategies for men.
1. Guide to blind date topics
1. Praise each other
When two people meet for the first time, they are a little shy and nervous, so they go straight into the blind date. If the topic is more serious, you can praise the other person for the lively chat atmosphere, for example: "It's nice to meet you, but you are much prettier in person than in the photos." If the atmosphere becomes more relaxed, the topic will be easier to interact with.
2. Interesting anecdotes about work
When two people are on a blind date, they will definitely exchange work information. Talking about work in a serious manner is too monotonous. You might as well add interesting anecdotes about people and interesting people while chatting about work. On the one hand, you can show your ability and ambition, on the other hand, you will not let the chat fall into a boring negotiation mode.
3. Recalling interesting things about childhood and school
It is said that childhood and school are the happiest periods in life. When you are young and ignorant, you will inevitably do some embarrassing things. Maybe a girl has the same and similar experience as you, and you have established an emotional connection with the girl inadvertently.
4. Chatting about pets
Chatting about pets can show your love, and now many girls like to keep pets, and some even have no resistance to pets. Chatting about pets can be very Easily open up girls' chat boxes.
5. Chat about weather and traffic
Weather and traffic are relatively life-oriented topics. On the one hand, they can be used to chat with each other, and on the other hand, they are more likely to resonate with each other.
6. Talking about food
Food is the most talked about topic in China, and it is also used in the relationship between men and women. China is a universal chat topic. You can use the topic of food to understand each other's preferences and tastes. If you can cook, this is also a bonus. If the conversation is good, it can also pave the way for the next date.
2. Taboos on blind dates
1. It is taboo to ask "How many times have you been in love and how many boyfriends have you had?"
Love experience is a question that many boys want to inquire about, but it is related to the privacy of the other party. Between two people, When the relationship is not that familiar, talking about this issue is simply a suicide.
2. It is taboo to say that I have an average job, no car or house
Talking about this topic is a test for girls. Before a blind date, the matchmaker usually introduces the situation of the two people, but the other party is still willing to continue. Going out on a date with you means that the other person has expectations for you. If you still talk about this issue nakedly, then there is basically no possibility of further development between you and her.
3. Taboo chat articles about geography, military news, sports and football, etc.
Blind date is actually mainly about chatting. Chatting is a two-way interactive process. If you keep talking about topics that interest you, girls will feel left out. If you leave her alone, it is a sign of low emotional intelligence. Even if you talk about it, it will be difficult for girls to interest you. .
