Feelings are mutual. If you want to make a woman never forget you, unilateral efforts will definitely not work. Your unilateral efforts will only make her proud and arrogant, making her less and less precious about the relationship. . So, stop giving unilaterally, let me share with you the 3 best ways to make a woman never forget you.
1. Always leave a hole when sending messages
When Jiang Taigong fishes, he pays attention to those who are willing. Take the bait. If we don’t have that condition, we shouldn’t have a figure.
In fact, the goddess had three reactions after receiving the news:
After reading it, she didn’t reply.
Don’t even look at it.
After reading it, I replied decisively.
So we have to leave some room for the goddess to be interested. How to set up this opening? What topics are the goddess interested in?
For example, you said to the goddess:
“I went to see 5 movies in one day during the holiday, and they all had something. I think there is one movie that is particularly suitable for you to watch by yourself or with your best friends."
Finally, I would like to ask, "If it were you, which one would you choose to go out to watch with your friends?"
Found it ?
Let the goddess do multiple-choice questions instead of quiz questions. On the one hand, it can save the goddess's response time, and at the same time, it can communicate back and forth.
Of course, what you say must be an area that you have really experienced or really understand. Otherwise, if the ball is kicked back, you will be embarrassed if you can't catch it.
Imagine that when the other person receives your message, he or she smiles very charmingly. It's not in vain, you really go and book 5 movies, everything is worth it.
In fact, it is because of the "Zeigarnik memory effect" in psychology.
What does it mean? Unfinished things are easier to remember than completed things.
This is precisely because we are affected by the Zeigarnik effect and subconsciously regard first love as an "unfinished thing."
So, when you leave a hole for the goddess in a chat, she will also be very tempted to reply to your message under the influence of this effect.
2. "Seek common ground while reserving differences" with the goddess
Seek common ground while reserving differences. We can do it together.
For example, the goddess likes to eat popsicles in the winter. After thinking about it, you think, isn’t it just eating popsicles? We can accompany her, right? Then you eat with her... In this way, under the influence of the central anchor of psychology, the goddess eats popsicles every time Didn't she think of you when she was young? "It seems that only Xiaoshu is as different as me!"
When she wants to find someone to entrust her to her life, the first one she will think of is you.
Spend more time and patiently find out if your goddess has any hobbies that you can participate in. Maybe, by accident, you will become her secret ally and enter her heart.
3. Ask the goddess for help
Too frequent help will only make her ignore your efforts.
So, instead of helping the goddess, it is better to let the goddess help you.
Have you ever heard of the Franklin Effect:
“Those who have helped you before will be more willing to help you again than those who have been helped by you.”
The Franklin effect, in general, is to try every means to trouble her so that she is willing to help you and remember you.
The most important point is that in the process of her helping you, you are equal, and sometimes it is mutually beneficial.
Of course, this must be something that the goddess can do and have follow-up development. For example: "My mobile phone is out of network right now, and I have an appointment with my boss to report to work. Can you help me open it?" Are you interested in a hot spot..."
The goddess will generally not refuse such a reasonable demand, and it also shows her current advantages, that is: I play a very important role in my work.
When she gets home, she will think of you and how focused you are, and she will take the initiative to worry: "How was the last report? Is there any problem with my network?"
After a while, He asked her out on the pretext that he owed her a favor: "Fortunately I had you last time, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to get through!" Everyone was happy.
Then, in the process of owing a favor, ask her to help you with some small things. Come and go, the goddess will definitely miss you!
