Two people who like each other but don’t want to be together are destined to have only one ending, which is to really look at each other and become the object of someone else’s ambiguity. Is it because they obviously like each other but don't want to be together because they haven't had enough fun? Let's take a look at their real psychology.
1. Although they like each other, they are not together yet
This There are too many examples of this. Many people clearly like each other, but they have not yet reached the point of being together. So they will engage in ambiguity, but most of them will go nowhere. When two people are still not sure about their feelings, they usually get to know each other better and spend more time getting along with each other. After all, falling in love is not a casual thing, and there are many disadvantages of being together too quickly. It is easy to break up, and the emotional foundation is not enough. To put it bluntly, if two people have been ambiguous for a period of time, most of them don't like each other enough. If they like each other enough, they can't hide it. Most people are like this. They hope to confirm the relationship quickly, so why drag it on? However, there are also some boys who have many ambiguous partners. In the end, they usually weigh the pros and cons and choose the girl they like the most to be with.
2. Waiting for the other party to take the initiative, not willing to break the window paper first
Sometimes two people keep They are in an ambiguous state. They clearly like each other but don't express it. To put it bluntly, they still don't want to take the initiative. They may still lack self-confidence in their hearts, and they may still be afraid that the other person doesn't like them enough and will reject them. Of course, I am not willing to take the initiative. Another reason is that I am afraid that my price will drop. If you take the initiative once, you may have to take the initiative every time in the future. Generally speaking, girls are reluctant to take the initiative, mostly because they are shy. Most girls like to be passive and like others to chase them. Boys, on the other hand, are not sure enough about the other person's feelings and are very afraid that the girl will reject him. In the end, the relationship between the two of them will become very awkward. If you are rejected, you may not even be friends. In fact, everyone should take the initiative when meeting someone they like!
3. Be cautious about feelings and fear of being hurt< /h2>
It’s understandable that some people are cautious about relationships. After all, relationships are a lifelong thing, so even if you like each other, you don’t choose to be together. It’s normal to have hesitations. Everyone has one. The mentality of self-protection means that the easier it is to get someone, the less they will cherish it after getting it. Therefore, many people tend to be cautious about love and do not want to be with someone for whom they are not sure about their feelings.
4. Not dedicated enough and don’t want to hang from this tree
Nowadays, many people clearly like each other but are not willing to confirm that they are in a relationship. To put it bluntly, they are still not dedicated enough. Rather than falling in love with one person, many people would rather be ambiguous with many people. Many people will feel tired when they are in love. After a long time, they will feel boring and lose the original feeling. So instead of spending time to confirm the relationship, get tired of it and then break up, they prefer to be ambiguous. Such people are actually very empty inside. Even though they chat non-stop, they often feel very lonely. Single-mindedness is a person's responsibility and a commitment. In any case, if the other person has been ambiguous with you and just wants to have fun. The earliest thing to do is to stop this kind of relationship, because once you fall into it, it will be very painful. After all, whoever takes it seriously first will become the loser of the game.
You can only know the quality of a relationship after you are together, so if you obviously like each other, then take the initiative and face the relationship positively. After all, who can say what will happen after falling in love? How clear is it?
