If both men and women have a good impression of the blind date, then the relationship can be established. However, how long does it take to establish a relationship on a blind date? How should the relationship be established? These are very particular, so as not to make the other party think you are not sincere enough and cause misunderstandings. Today we will talk about these two issues in detail.
1. How long does it take to establish a relationship after a blind date?
Regarding the question of how long it takes to establish a relationship after a blind date, the specific situation depends on the individual. Some men and women can establish a relationship on the same day of a blind date. Some men and women on a blind date take several months to establish a relationship, which cannot be generalized. It also has to do with people's personalities. Some people are slow to warm up. If you want her to get passionate with you right away, it may not be realistic. For extroverts, as long as they have the right eye and chat, it is not impossible to get together immediately.
2. How to establish a relationship on a blind date
1. Go with what others like
What does it mean to match each other's interests? To give a simple example, you like to read, but a girl likes to watch variety shows. At this time, you may not have that many topics in common. But if you are willing to watch variety shows with her in your spare time, you can also chat with her about variety shows. Not only will it give the girl the feeling of having a common topic, but she will also make changes in you. Surprised.
And how to do what she likes? You can have a preliminary understanding of her through her circle of friends. After browsing her circle of friends, I found some topics that she was familiar with, which opened up her chat box. For example:
Male: What do you do after get off work?
Female: I like to follow dramas, scroll through Weibo, and watch Douyin and so on.
Male: What a coincidence, I also like to watch dramas. What drama are you watching?
Female: "..."
Male: (If not I know this TV series, so I immediately searched it online and got a rough idea) Is it the TV series played by XXX?
Female: Yes, are you following it too? I thought boys didn’t like watching it?
Male: Haha, I haven’t seen it, but I have seen the stills by chance and have some impressions. What do you think of this drama?
Female: I think it’s okay.
Male: If that’s the case, then I’ll go back and take a look at it tonight.
Then the next day, you can use the excuse that you watched the show, talk about your thoughts, and communicate with the girls about the show, so that you can have an in-depth chat. However, if the other person is not surprised at all, it means that the other person does not like you and you can withdraw for three days. If the other person is slow to respond, you may be talking to more than one person, or they may not be interested in you.
The advantage of being with someone you like is that you have more common topics, which will make girls feel that being with you will not be boring and boring.There are a lot of bad things that happen when you establish a relationship.
2. Go out together
If the date is just for eating and chatting, since both parties are not familiar with each other yet, it is easy to fall into an awkward situation of chatting. And if you go out to play together, you can help the girl carry the bag and put it into your pocket invisible. If she doesn’t let you carry the bag, it doesn’t matter. When she wants to take beautiful photos, she will naturally let you carry it! You can also give it to girls. Take beautiful photos, which can bring you closer to each other.
PS: It is best to arrange a group photo when we go out together for the second time (the girl may refuse the first time). Don't get too close to the girl when taking photos, and don't send the photo to others unless the girl sends it herself.
3. Exchanging little secrets
A little secret can quickly draw into the relationship between two people, giving people the illusion that they are both their own people, breaking through the psychological barrier defensive line. But this little secret should be chosen well, not too personal or too popular.
This little secret can be a problem at work, or something that has just happened or happened in the past.
When you say it, you should also give the girl a feeling: you only told her this secret.
How long does it take to establish a relationship on a blind date? Generally speaking, you need to get closer to each other first, so that you feel that girls are not so repulsive to you. At that time, you can consider establishing a relationship.
