A woman will have many obvious signs when she truly loves someone. Similarly, if she doesn’t love you anymore, she will also have many signs. So what will happen when a woman doesn’t love you anymore?
1. Not letting you touch
The aversion to a person is first reflected in physical contact. If your If your girlfriend starts not to love you anymore, then your most intuitive feeling is that she starts to refuse to be intimate with you.
In the past, when you were in a good relationship, you might have walked together, held hands, hugged and kissed, but once the other person starts to have no feelings for you, these intimate actions will disappear in an instant.
Not only does the other party not take the initiative, but they will also reject you when you take the initiative - "Don't do this, it's uncomfortable", "It's too hot, stop holding hands", "No, just walk properly".
The other party may be able to show off verbally, but the resistance and disgust expressed by the other party towards you in physical movements are subconscious and involuntary.
If your girlfriend has been in this state with you for more than half a month, then your girlfriend definitely doesn’t love you anymore. This time span cannot be affected by a single anger or menstrual period. .
2. I will no longer share my life with you
We originally said we should look for signs that a girl likes you. When I was studying, I once said one thing: when a girl starts to share her daily life with you and starts to take the initiative to tell you the interesting things she sees, this girl has already begun to be interested in you.
Girls like to share by nature, so when a girl loves you, they can’t help but tell you a lot of things and share a lot of stories - what did they do today, what did they post on Weibo What have you seen online, what interesting things have happened to people around you...
But when they don’t love you, their desire to share with you will naturally begin to decrease. Because they feel like they have nothing to talk to you about.
This is actually human nature: when we like someone, we can’t help but become a chatterbox in front of that person, but when we lose interest in someone, we will Gradually we restrain ourselves and become speechless in front of this person.
3. Pay less attention to you
When a person doesn’t love you, he will naturally Pay less attention to you and you will feel a noticeable change in this person's attitude.
When you first got together, the other person took great care of you. At this time, the other person was a little bit careless.They will care about you in every situation; but now, the other party basically doesn't care much about your life.
A friend of mine was like this before. He got seriously ill while he was on a business trip. When he called his girlfriend to tell her about it, his girlfriend subconsciously said: "Then you Won't my work be delayed?" When my friend heard that sentence, he immediately felt chilled.
Under normal circumstances, for any couple, they would definitely say "take care of yourself" or tell the other person that they are taking time off because their health is important, but at this time, the other person is actually focusing on their work. superior.
Even such a simple concern for the other party is not willing to be provided. It can only be said that the other party does not care about you from the bottom of his heart and does not care about how you are doing.
A person who loves you, even if your own life is good enough, but the other person is always thinking about you for fear that something will happen to you; but a person who doesn’t love you, even if you are very sad here , she may feel like a normal person.
4. Reduce investment in you
When you love someone, it is easy to talk about everything and discuss everything, because you feel that the other person is one of your own, and you spend money on her. Money makes you happy; but when you don't love someone, you will make calculations and always feel that you are losing money by spending money on the other person, and you will be full of complaints.
Therefore, when a person starts not to love you, you can feel her calculations in this relationship. For her, although the two of you are still together, at this time she does not care about you. There is no feeling anymore, and the only motivation that makes her stay with you is the value of you.
A person who doesn’t love you will not be willing to invest in you, because at this time she will only feel that she has lost money and has to spend time and energy on someone she doesn’t like at all. and money.
Reducing investment in you is multifaceted. The other party first starts to tighten up on money, and finally starts to treat you perfunctorily in terms of energy, and then spends less and less time with you - the reduction of investment. , means that the other person feels that being with you is “not worth it”.
5. Start looking for a way out
If a person doesn’t love you anymore but not for a while If you plan to break up with you, then the other party is very likely to be doing one thing at this time: she is looking for a way out for herself, thinking about achieving a seamless emotional connection.
First in the circle of friends, this person will start to hide the status of having a partner, start to change his avatar, delete the status of being with the partner before, and sometimes even post some posts showing that he is single. The message is to attract others to find a way out for you.
Then in actual behavior, the time and energy she reduces from you will gradually be used on other people. you will feel thisIt seems that she suddenly has many other activities, and there seem to be so many friends who she has good chats with...
At this time, it is actually the other party who is looking for a back-up for her. When you are on the road, the other person is thinking about withdrawing from your relationship and is preparing to break up in advance.
Once the other person finds a new home, or has the hope of finding a new home, she will quickly break up with you, cut off all relations with you, and start her relationship again.
