Under normal circumstances, in most couples or couples, the man is several years older than the woman, and it is rare that the woman is older than the man. Therefore, sibling relationships are not favored by many people, but with the openness and freedom of thinking, more and more boys tend to look for older women when looking for partners. What is the appropriate age difference between siblings?
Regarding the age gap between siblings, it is generally recommended that the age difference between siblings is 3~ 4 years old is appropriate. Let’s talk about the reasons below:
And if the age gap between siblings is too big, in addition to some ideological gaps, the physical gap will also widen dramatically. Maybe in a short period of time, both siblings will not feel anything wrong with each other, but as time goes by, girls age faster than boys, and then the physical age gap will become wider and wider. The style of painting while walking on the road It would also be very inconsistent. Therefore, 3~4 years old is also a consideration of the satisfaction of the relationship between siblings.
On the other hand, the 3-year-old generation gap we often talk about is actually not a joke. Girls are psychologically precocious than boys, so many girls in a sibling relationship may think that boys are too naive, and it is tiring to interact with such boys. They would rather find a boy who is older than themselves, so that they can receive more care and feel more secure. Although we say in reality that young women can bring more fresh vitality to sister-type women, the difference in communication will also make it difficult to sublimate the relationship, thereby reducing the happiness of the sibling relationship.
Boys generally believe that as long as they have feelings, it doesn't matter whether they are in love with each other. But girls think more about sibling relationships:
From ancient times to the present, society’s standards for judging men and women are more harsh on women, such as: "A married daughter throws away water", "A woman is better off marrying well than having a good birth", "A man is a flower, a woman is a dregs"... These remarks all put women in a lower position.
And the love between siblings is not only a love between a man and a woman, but also encounters resistance from parents, relatives, and friends. For example, the boy's parents may think that it will be difficult for the girl to have children now that she is so old, and they may feel that their son is at a disadvantage... Naturally, the girl does not want to suffer these dislikes, and does not want herself or even her family to be wronged because of a sibling relationship. She would even consider these issues before accepting a sibling relationship. Because love may be a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. This is one of the reasons why many sister-brother relationships cannot reach the end.
Perhaps, when a girl is young, she will be attracted to the kind of naughty boy who skips classes. She will think that such a boy is cool and being with him is exciting; but as she grows older, , with their own maturity, girls are more inclined to choose men who have rational judgment and will not act impulsively. Because girls have also gone from childishness to maturity, she knows what kind ofMen are the most suitable for falling in love and getting married. Life is very long. Apart from liking each other and the passion when we get along, life tends to be dull.
The relationships between siblings around me have also successfully come to an end, and some have broken up at the stage of engagement. These are what we It's impossible to predict. It can only be said that it is necessary to consider the appropriate age difference between siblings, and more importantly, it is also necessary to consider how the two parties feel about getting along, whether the running-in is smooth, and whether the attitudes of both families agree...