Today, let’s talk about some little knowledge about confession.
First of all, confession is not suitable for the first acquaintance stage. In other words, if you just confess to a girl after you have just met her, this will definitely not work.
And when you have passed the stage of first acquaintance, have a certain understanding and familiarity, and even reached the stage where you can date and be ambiguous, confession will come in handy!
< p> And when you use your confession well, it can play a big role~1. The timing of confession is very important
In everything, it is important to have the right time, right place, right people, and the right time to express your love, and the success rate will be greatly increased.
First of all, if the two people chatting are a bit ambiguous, then you can create more opportunities for the two of them to get along alone.
You must know that the atmosphere when two people are alone together is different, and it is easy for people to fall into a sweet atmosphere. At this time, most people are excited about confessing.
Therefore, if you confess your love at this time, the chance of success will be very high.
The second thing is when I go out to play with girls.
The reason why most people like to go out and play is: you will go to a strange living environment, and in that environment, there are no familiar people and things. You can temporarily put aside the worries of work. At that moment, You feel very relaxed inside, and your mood and behavior will change.
It is also because of this that girls will have a good impression and dependence on boys who can take good care of themselves when traveling.
When the atmosphere is sufficient, boys can seize the opportunity to express their love.
Finally, it is okay to confess your feelings on the phone at night, and the girl will be secretly happy for a long time.
It is said that some people often cry late at night and often recall some sad things. That is because people’s feelings and emotions are the most abundant at night, so, Confess your love to a girl on the phone at night. Because of the influence of your mood at night, the girl will be more likely to agree to you.
2. Small preparation before confession
Sometimes, there can also be assists, that is, Someone help you.
And this assist must be the person closest to the girl. For example, it can be her good friend or best friend. However, the premise is that you know her friends or best friends and they approve it. You, are willing to help you.
After all, a girl has a very high degree of trust in people she is familiar with.
Although you can also ask friends around you to help, but it depends on the girl’s personality. If she doesn’t like having outsiders around, just ask her directly.failed.
Don’t ask a large group of people to witness your confession. If a girl doesn’t like it and can’t blend in, she will reject you faster.
Therefore, just ask the girl’s familiar friends to come over. Don’t make it so big, such as confessing your feelings in front of everyone in public places, so that she won’t feel any pressure.
When you are ready to assist, there is another homework to do, which is to get to know the girl. You have to know what she likes and what she is interested in.
This is something you must do before confessing your love. You have to discuss with the girl the things she is interested in, and you also have your own opinions on these things, or in other words, you know more than she does. As you learn more and get to know her better, a girl will slowly become interested in you.
And when girls often ask you for advice on related issues, you can seize the opportunity
To make girls gradually develop a sense of dependence on you, and then it is time to upgrade the relationship.
What to do if the confession fails
The consequences after the confession will be any situation. If it goes well, Not much to say.
But if it doesn’t go well, don’t feel bad about it
If you fail, there is no chance, but there is still hope, because the girl may also like you
It’s just her I want to test you. If you choose to leave silently because of the first failure, then girls will actually regret it for a long time.
There is a situation where she really refuses outright and firmly expresses that she doesn’t like you. She even acts a little bored and hates you. In this case, you can consider giving up. .
For men who have failed to confess but still have hope, here are some tips for you:
First, relax.
After failing to confess, your Your mood and state are definitely not good, and these negative emotions will make everything you do feel unsatisfactory.
So, you need to relax.
For example, go hiking, travel, enjoy the natural scenery, or go to other cities to see different customs.
The travel process can be recorded in the circle of friends. This is actually a way to show your value. She will know that you still love life so much and will not give up on yourself because of a failed confession. , and at the same time, because you have confessed to her, she will gradually pay more and more attention to you.
Only by adjusting your condition can you perform better and find out why she rejected you.
Second, become excellent
Once the state is adjusted, the next step is to improve yourself.
There must be a reason for a girl to reject you. Lack of familiarity is one of the reasons. There is nothing she wants in you.Food is also a reason, or not being able to cook is also a reason.
Therefore, you can improve yourself based on these problems, and your shortcomings can be made up for.
Improve yourself and maintain a good life, and she will understand that you are a person worth relying on.
Three, don’t contact the girl frequently
After the confession fails, what you can’t do is contact the girl frequently.
What you should do is to calm down first and let both of you take a break instead of sending her messages or calling her frequently. Doing so will only make the girl tired of you.
And you will become more and more sad because you are repeatedly rejected by girls. Why bother...
So, if you are rejected, don’t be too anxious first, take your time. Take your time, improve yourself, and then cultivate your relationship slowly, so that the girl can see your value and make her feel that "you are worth it."
