If you want to establish a relationship with a girl, what would you do? Many boys may only think of methods such as confession. But we have said that if you are not completely sure, it is best not to confess your love to a girl rashly, because the girl is very likely to reject you, so if you are rejected by the girl, you will have no chance. So how do you establish a relationship with a girl without confessing your feelings? First understand a girl’s interest in you. A girl’s feelings towards you can be roughly divided into the following three levels:
1. Girls are low-interest in you
The so-called girls are interested in you Low interest means that a girl has no interest in you. Typical manifestations are that a girl says "um", "hehe" or "bath" to you, and she gives you a very cold response to whatever you send her, such as giving you a direct emoticon (the so-called coldness means You can't find emotions or valuable information in her words, and she is also very slow to reply to messages. She suddenly stops replying to you after a few words of conversation)
For example:
Male: It's so hot today, I really want to go out shirtless.
Female: (animated expression)
Male: I envy you girls, you have so many cool clothes.
Female: (animated expression)
For girls like this who have low interest in you, you should just throw them away. Don't imagine that you can change anything through chatting. For this kind of person, the only thing you can change is yourself. By improving your own value, you will make it impossible for those who once disrespected you.
2. Girls are interested in you
If a girl is interested in you, then during the chat, It will have emotions and content for you. But only occasionally, sometimes enthusiastic and sometimes cold, alternating, good and bad. Occasionally, when the topic she likes comes up, she will talk more. This kind of medium-interested person can completely stimulate her interest through correct chatting skills, and thus become a high-interest person like us. For example:
Male: I just finished exercising and my clothes are soaked.
Female: I’m ordering takeout.
Male: I guess you ordered fish-flavored shredded pork?
Female: No, hahaha!
Male: What is that?
Female: Lanzhou Ramen.
Male: I have eaten authentic beef in Lanzhou before, and the beef was like free of charge.
Female: It seems that you like to go everywhere.
Male: Balabala!
3. Girls are highly interested in you
If a girl frequently shares her emotions and provides you with Nutritious topics will even make you happy and even curious about you. Then she will become very interested in you. For girls with high interest, what we need to do is to improve the relationship.
Because you have succeededTo attract her, if you show yourself too much and talk about things that are not there, you will easily miss the opportunity to upgrade the relationship. For example:
1. Man: I just finished exercising and my clothes are soaked.
Female: Do you usually exercise regularly?
Male: Yes, I think girls need one more Peng Yuyan!
Female: Wow, you look so awesome, can you let me see it?
Male: I don’t just post body photos, unless you call me “good brother” I will send them to you!
2. Male: Why do you play xx (a certain social software)?
Female: Meet some new friends!
Male: Me too, I just got a girlfriend while chatting all the time!
Female: Hahaha!
Male: To be honest, do you also have such a purpose?
3. Man: What are you doing?
Woman: We are in a meeting, I am about to fall asleep
Man: I have a quick way to wake you up. Do you want it? Don’t try it
Female: What method
Male: Come over and pinch your face, I’ll give you a second to wake up
Female: You’re so annoying
When faced with girls’ high interest, we no longer simply extend the topic, but constantly look for it in the topic. Opportunities will bring you closer to each other, until your relationship changes qualitatively, and establishing a relationship will be a natural thing, and there is no need for you to express your love to the girl.
