When you like someone in your heart, you will always think about the other person. When this emotion is getting stronger day by day, you hope to let her know through confession. I hope to hold hands with my son and grow old together, and fall into the fantasy that I can't extricate myself from, but the actual situation always backfires, "Oh my god, she will actually reject me!" If you don't follow the routine, you will always be ruthlessly punished by reality. Attack, so it is also important to grasp the timing of confession.
You fell in love with a girl and have been obsessed with her ever since. You think about her day and night, so you want to go directly to her. Confess. When you prepared the candlelight dinner, prepared the roses and love letters, and prepared everything, when you asked her to be your girlfriend, she refused. Why? Because your love for her has nothing to do with her. She doesn’t know what kind of person you are. She has never gotten along with you. She doesn’t even know who you are!
So when to confess your love? This action is only suitable when the two parties are familiar with each other and the relationship has been established to a certain extent. Therefore, when interacting with each other, do not rush for success and achieve success in one step. And people who have experienced it tell you that the fun of chasing a girl lies in the process of chasing, not the sweetness of being together. Wong Kar-wai once said, "I like you very much, but I never told you, because I know that not getting it is the best."
Probably due to the influence of film and television dramas, many boys like to confess their feelings in public, as they seem to think that this is a formal confession. But in fact, this is very embarrassing for introverted girls. It can easily cause her to feel uneasy, nervous and other emotions. Coupled with the uncertainty of the scene, it is very likely that she will be rejected. Although confessing your love in public shows your courage, it can also give girls an impulsive impression.
If two people have been together for a period of time and can feel each other's feelings, they can carefully prepare a unique confession. If the confession is just a simple sentence, it will be too vulgar. It is best to It is presented in the form of gift + love letter, which will be more romantic.
When impulsive straight men pursue girls, they are too aggressive. Before the relationship is in place, they think about confessing and going on a date. For For girls, it still takes a certain amount of time to test whether a boy is worthy of being a boyfriend. Premature confession will cause girls to reject you, which will make impulsive straight men feel frustrated and give up the pursuit.
Sometimes a girl’s rejection is just because your confession is too abrupt. In her heart, she originally planned to “test” for a while before deciding whether you can be her boyfriend, but in the end, you just confess your love. It's equivalent to asking about the score before the teacher has finished grading the test paper!
