If you like a girl and are already preparing to confess to her, but unexpectedly another boy confesses to her before you do, what will you do at this time? Should you turn around and leave in regret, or should you express your feelings to a girl again and see if she will choose you? It can only be said that these two methods are not correct. Let’s talk about what you should do.
What should you do when the girl you like is confessed to you by someone else?
1. Reflect on your own questions
Usually boys who ask this question have this idea in their hearts: It’s as if she is yours if you confess first. Are you still regretting that if you had confessed first, nothing would have happened to you?
What do you think she is? She is a human being, with brains, opinions, personality, and long legs that can run. If she doesn't want to, who can force her to submit? There is no first-mover advantage at all, there is no such thing as first come, first served.
To be honest, this girl must have been eyeing this guy for a long time. Just wait for this buddy to confess his feelings and go straight to each other. Girls have completely different attitudes when facing boys they like and ordinary boys. It was probably that the girl had already given this guy a signal of affection, which prompted him to confess his feelings.
Unlike you, who put up the antenna early and waited to receive the signal, but the girl blocked you long ago. She has never had any thoughts about you. This is not a quick answer question at all, but a multiple choice question with standard answers. Don't sigh here, there is no need to regret, there is nothing to be sorry for. You should learn your lesson now and reflect on yourself.
2. Control your emotions
Anyone who hears that the girl he likes has been confessed by others will There is a feeling of being struck by thunder, and then you can't help but roar: "Just him?"
I can understand that you must be very angry and unconvinced now. You feel that that guy is not worthy of a girl, and you even think that you are a girl. blindness. You want to rush in front of the girl, say a lot of bad things to slander that guy, saying that you are better than him in every way, and then shake the girl's shoulders crazily to make her wake up.
Why do you do this? The deal is done, can you be more generous? Instead of being angry, reflect. When something goes wrong, there must be a monster.
3. Improve and change yourself
Maybe you think that guy is not worthy of your girl, but your girl is still reluctant to agree to his confession. Does that mean something? Either that, you girls are really blind. Or, that guy has a shining point that you can't see.
It is unlikely that your girl is "blind". If she is, it means that there is something wrong with your brain to actually like this kind of stuff. The answer lies in this guy. He must have some shining points that you didn't see, or you saw the shining points that you don't want to admit.
This flash point is very interesting, because you thinkIt’s worthless, but you girls treat it like a treasure. This is the real reason why you are unwilling, unconvinced, and angry. It's like some brothers fall in love with a girl who has a good appearance, but they insist on calling her superficial and insisting that a man must look on the inside.
If you have this time to brainwash girls, why not use this time to transform your own image? Is it difficult? It's nothing more than getting a haircut, taking care of your skin, dressing up, and keeping fit. The only one who benefits is you. If you improve yourself according to her needs, you will have more opportunities and make yourself better.
