Many people think that love means speaking out loud, and when chasing a girl, you must let the other party know your feelings, so they always like to use confession to chase girls. To be honest, the chances of catching a girl like this are very low.
After all, one of the most fascinating things about boys that fascinates girls is mystery.
It is precisely because of this feeling of uncertainty that girls want to know you, and they will slowly be attracted to you.
When you directly confess your love to her and tell her that you like her, and everything you do next is to win over her, then you will make her lose that feeling of uncertainty, and even make her doubt you. motives and purposes, thereby losing favor with you.
Moreover, confessing will put you directly at a lower position in your relationship. Before confessing, no matter what impression you give her, she will probably treat you as a person with a complete personality. But after confessing your love, you are putting yourself in a very strict examination room, accepting new scrutiny and observation from girls to see if you can meet the standards of being her boyfriend.
If you occasionally make a small mistake when you are not expressing your love, then it is no problem, it will be easily ignored or forgiven by the girl.
For example, if the chat ends in silence, then she will only think that you are not very familiar with each other and understand each other very well, so you can slowly change in the future.
But after confessing, girls will measure you based on a standard for choosing their future partner. You know, this standard is very harsh. This may cause her to focus more on your flaws.
This is one of the most serious consequences of the act of confessing.
Since you have taken the initiative to break the mystery and put love on the table, girls will inevitably have to think more carefully.
At this time, even if there is some materialism and some money worship, it is all because you made her switch to rational thinking.
When women become rational, all your fantasies and efforts will be in vain. This is also because their positioning of you has changed:
Your advantages and value can only be As a reference, your shortcomings and character deficiencies will become her reasons for rejecting you at any time. (What's more, you didn't attract her much before you confessed your love)
Confession will also put a kind of pressure on girls. Maybe after you confess your love to a girl, the girl will show hesitation or non-resistance, but it's just a girl. Is it a good signal?
Some boys will mistakenly think that this signal is an encouragement to persevere. When a girl realizes that it may cause misunderstanding, she will try her best to solve it. Kill your enthusiasm and make you lose your expectations.
She does this to prevent you from misunderstanding her coldness, launching more offensives and putting more social pressure on her.
If a man confesses his love Success means that a girl must lower her principles and bottom lines, allow this man to enter her world, and even become the master of part of her life and will - and this man has not done so in advance. Not attracting yourself
If even not responding may encourage men’s desire to conquer, then if a girl really doesn’t like you, her rejection must be very decisive because she doesn’t want to face it. More trouble.
Men and women who are attracted to each other can be together without "feeling" as a link. No matter how touching the confession is, it is meaningless.
When getting along with each other, don't miss the opportunity to create feelings, don't let go of giving her a little punishment, and talk about emotional topics when it's time. The more natural and peaceful the mentality, the more likely it is to enter each other's hearts. < /p>
