There are too many boys who are chasing girls and like to confess, but unless they are handsome, the result of confession is basically failure. Better ones may receive a perfunctory reply like "think about it" from girls. So what should you do when a girl says she’s thinking about it after confessing her love?
1. Misinterpret the girl’s meaning
Emotional resonance is crucial when communicating with girls. This is also an important step in getting closer to girls. Therefore, after confessing, if a girl says she will think about it, we can deliberately misinterpret her meaning and guide the chat into a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere.
For example
Boy: Be my girlfriend.
Girl: We are not very familiar yet, let me think about it first.
Boy: Well, bake it first. I like it medium rare.
Girl: Haha, okay.
2. Push and pull the girl’s emotions
After confessing to the girl, she said to think about it, which means that you If you are not attracting her, you can try to use push-pull methods to alternately release signals of interest and disinterest to the girl, so that she sometimes feels that you care about her and sometimes ignores her, stimulating the girl's emotions and building attraction.
For example
Boy: Be my girlfriend.
Girl: We are not very familiar yet, I want to think about it again.
Boy: Even if you are mature, I am not mentally prepared to eat you yet (push)
Girl: Haha.
Boy: However, you are quite cute when you smile (pull)
Girl: I want to think about it again, after all, we have not known each other for a long time.
Boy: You are right. As a beautiful young man as I am, I can’t take advantage of you.
Girl: Haha, you are so narcissistic.
Boy: If you can make a beautiful woman smile, that’s enough.
3. Redefine the relationship
Play a role in the chat and create the image of the uncle and the little girl, Depart from ordinary friends, create a humorous chat atmosphere, and resolve the awkward chat atmosphere between you.
For example
Boy: Be my girlfriend.
Girl: I want to think about it again.
Boy: Little sister, as I mature, I’m worried that we won’t have a common language.
Girl: Haha, aren’t you an uncle?
Boy: Then I am also a mature, stable and charming uncle.
Girl: We are not very familiar yet, I will think about it again.
Boy: This cute little sister, you have to know that an outstanding person like me will be very popular once he matures.
Girl: Really?
Boy: Of course, mature and steady uncles are very popular nowadays.
