There are many boys who do not follow moral principles when pursuing girls. They just confess their feelings as soon as they meet. This type of "quick confession" is very easy to be rejected, because your confession breaks through the boundaries of your current relationship, and to girls It is not only a kind of pressure, but also makes her feel insecure, suspicious, and confused (trouble)... Even if she has a slight affection for you, out of reserve (to avoid making herself look casual), girls are very big You will also be rejected to some extent!
1. How to express your love with a high success rate
First of all, you must understand the meaning of "confession" ” is the ritual of establishing a “love relationship.”
Love relationships require an emotional foundation.
When many people confess their love, they don’t even know what the other girl likes, what her hobbies are, and her personality tendencies, so they confess.
If you want to increase the success rate of confession, you need to establish an emotional foundation with a girl. Only with an emotional foundation can two people fall in love. Otherwise, don't confess.
To put it bluntly, this emotional basis is - intimacy + trust, getting close to girls, caring for girls, helping girls, sharing your life with girls, creating common memories with girls in your spare time... these are all made Emotionally based approach.
When you have established a certain relationship with a girl, think about how to express your feelings.
Second and three dimensions to promote confession with 100% success rate
1. Improve yourself
Due to the psychology of admiration, girls tend to choose high-value men in their boyfriends. This value (also a specialty often mentioned by girls) includes wealth, status, power, achievement, ability, temperament, and connotation. wait.
When you continue to improve yourself and develop in a high-value direction, it will be easier for girls to see the shining points in you, feel safe in you, and then agree to your confession.
2. Stimulate emotions
Sometimes, although you think you are excellent, girls just don’t feel for you. Therefore, no matter how you express your feelings, it will be in vain. Then you need to stimulate the girl's emotions before confessing, so that she can have an emotional foundation with you and the possibility of developing a couple.
Usually people stimulate girls’ emotions through chatting and dating, but these are superficial forms. In essence, the ways to stimulate girls’ emotions include verbal teasing, creating ambiguity, physical KINO, etc. .
3. Be prepared
I believe that for boys who have failed to express their feelings, most of them may just say "I love you", and some may not even do this. I can't even say a word,Say something like "How about we make a date?" "What do you think of me?" "Actually, I want to sleep with you"...
A crude confession, each one more crude than the other, focusing on rituals How can a girl who is sensitive easily agree to such a confession? The scene of confession, the timing of confession, the atmosphere of confession, the gift of confession, the love letter of confession...are you prepared?
