When many boys are chasing girls, they always have problems with the confession step. They have obviously cultivated enough feelings, but they still end in failure when they confess, making all their previous efforts in vain. So how can you increase the success rate of confession? Let me share with you 3 techniques that can increase the success of confession.
1. Find the right time to confess
Some friends ask each other out and meet each other. As for the anxious confession, this is not advisable. She originally thought we were just asking her out to play, but there was a sudden attack, which would make her brain go blank.
Out of self-protection, even if she has a slight liking for us, she will most likely reject it subconsciously. Of course, some friends like to put their confession at the end of the date.
Imagine, if we are girls, the date is over, and our minds have already been elsewhere. You may be thinking about going home, you may be thinking about work, you may be tired, you may be thinking about rushing to the next game, etc. If we confess at this time, she will probably say to go back and think about it. After all, my mind is no longer there, so how can I think about this?
Therefore, it is best to place the confession in the middle of the total duration of the date. At this time, it is the peak of the wave, the mood is relatively cheerful and stable, and the probability of success will be greatly increased.
2. Create a good atmosphere for confession
Everyone should know how important the atmosphere is. The story of my mother’s three moves. The environment can shape a person or something.
The reason why it is mentioned above that you should confess in the middle of a date is related to the principle of a mood peak. To put it simply, at this time, her inner atmosphere is sufficient, and her heart is beating rapidly.
As long as we create enough external atmosphere and don’t choose to confess during the cooling-down stage, the success rate of crotch lift will be low. How to create a good and warm atmosphere?
This is part of the preparatory work for the confession. We need to do a good job on her basic preferences before asking her out, and we should at least have a basic understanding.
In this way, when choosing a date location and project, be as close to her preferences as possible, and you will be able to gain a wave of love and the atmosphere will not be bad. If it can be combined with some surprises, the effect will be unexpectedly good.
3. Let actions speak louder than words
Many people’s understanding of confession is to say it personally. This is one-sided. However, since you choose to express your feelings, don’t limit yourself to verbal expressions.
Anyone can say, "I like you" is just three words. It's hard to convince people, and it's hard for people to know whether we are serious or not.
Eyes, gestures, and postures can all convey emotions, such asIf you find this difficult, just be simple and crude and hold the other person's hand.
The touch of the hand is closely related to the brain. If a girl does not refuse your hand, she often acquiesces in your relationship.
Therefore, confession must be at the right time, place, and right, and it is not just a simple sentence.
