Question: I played King of Kings during the vacation of my freshman year. While playing, I discovered that a girl from the next class (who was assigned to the same group in a certain class and was added as a friend, and I had not chatted with each other before) was also playing. I just invited her to play black games together. During the holidays, we often chatted until midnight every day. On the last day before returning to school, she even told me what to do if I fell in love with you in the future. But now that she is back at school, she is slowly becoming cold towards me. Maybe We still keep in touch every day, and occasionally play two sets of champions together. I find that I really seem to like her. I want to confess but am afraid of ruining the relationship. What should I do? I want to ask:
Is there a high chance of success in confessing to a girl you chat with every day?
Answer:
1. Maybe you think that if you can chat with a girl until midnight, you have basically met your soul mate. The two of you met so late that you have endless things to talk about. But in fact, this is just a girl's lonely and boring soul being released in the middle of the night, and she just happens to have a crush on you. Many things that happen have nothing to do with love, but to do with loneliness and emptiness.
2. On the last day before going back to school, a girl tells you "What if I fall in love with you in the future"? This is releasing your availability and making you mistakenly think that she likes you.
Look at this sentence. What if I fall in love with you in the future? Did you interpret that she might like me? What should I do if she asks me if she likes me? It can't be a confession, but the focus of her sentence is on the future, which means that people don't like you at all now. They don't like you, but they leave you a thought. Maybe they may like you in the future. Most of them If boys are not good at logic, it is easy for them to get around based on their inherent thinking.
I bet you must have been in a state of turmoil the moment you heard it. You were in a state of confusion. You originally thought you had unrequited love, but now it seems that you are in love in both directions, and your desire has been aroused to its peak.
3. Then you were poured cold water on me. When you go back to school, the girls will become indifferent to you. This is normal, because the original intersection between you two was limited to the Internet during that holiday when everyone was bored and empty. , it’s more of a comfort to each other. After the vacation and we return to reality, she will naturally focus on socializing in reality, so she won’t have that much time to chat with you.
To sum up, this is basically your one-man show from beginning to end. Of course, I don’t object if you want to confess. But basically it’s the kind of person who gives someone away. The girl’s reply should be that she was shocked and then said that she hasn’t thought about falling in love for the time being. In fact, I particularly support boys bravely confessing to each other, but confession is limited to an attempt by a boy to take the initiative to make the relationship clear when the two of them are already extremely ambiguous and the girl's liking is very obvious. It’s just that a girl’s empty and lonely fishing behavior is not worthy of your confession.
